Re: Why childcare
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I think i did mention atleast twice that stay at home mom doesn’t necessarily mean quality time with the kids. And that at times they may be giving even less time to the kids compared to what a working mother. So I don’t understand why you keep repeating that again and again. And as for Pakistan and the kids here…. well I would say parents are nowadays not paying much attention to the kids hence the damage. And ofcourse the society has a key role to play in it.
because you asked for clarification, an to clarify I had to repeat what I had initially said and then further explain it.
and its not that parents 'nowadays' are not paying much attention. One of my family friens was shot point blank at Dow Medical, when NSF and Jamiat had a gun Battle. not being with any group, he. my sister, and other students hid under cars, behind walls, whetver, and he was dragged out and shot point blank by a jamiat goon.
sectarian, an political violence has been in the nation for decades. In the 1980s muhajir-pathan riots, I recall that in one area ppl threw the poor pathan tandoor guy in his own tandoor.
And secondly, women’s role as a housewife is very hard if not more than not even less than those who work outside. Not everyone has maids to help them out maybe you do hence you don’t think its that hard 2 maintain the house.
First of all I ont have a maid, and between myself an my wife, we maintain the place,. BTW the point that the role of a housewife is as tough or tougher than those who work outside is pure hogwash. an avg housewife oes not have challenges close enough to what an avg consultant or investment banker or paramedic have to deal with. Lets be realistic here.
I just mentioned that if there is a financial issue than there is no option but to try and manage somehow with the mother working too. That didn’t mean I think she can work for money but not for intellectual challenge. But its just that she will have to make a choice and be honest about it.
Okay, so I just complete what you note, you ha stated that a woman can work if there is a financial need, I simply added to it. Good to see you agree.