Re: Why Brides Look Prettier On Their Walima Than The Actuall Wedding Day
I think the wedding day is the day of the unknowns. Whats your hubby like really? How does one act like a married person..How does one act in front of in laws...what should I do if I am hungry. Do these people really like me? Will hubby find me pretty? How do one act normal knowing whats potentially going to happen tonight..did I wax properly and enough??
The next day...is the day of revelations. Now you you the answers to a lot of stuff and its a relief. You have met your hubby in an intimate way (even if you dont go all the way!) and things arent as bad as you were worried they might be.
And I know couples who didnt do it for weeks. One friend related how her friend had told her horror stories of being torn and needing stitches after the wedding night (that must have been REALLY embarassing!) so when she saw her hubbys member, she feared the same was going to happen to her. It took her a month of gentle 'practice' to finally get to the deed!!