Well PCG, I understand where you're coming from, but at the same time I think there is more to it. I mean I grew up in the west and have lived here forever. I am not noticing that trend of men going back home to marry. I mean well-educated men going back home instead of marrying a girl from the US. I don't find girls lacking in good rishtas at all to be quite honest. If you have certain requirements for a guy, and that is what would make you happy, sure why not. After all you have to spend the rest of your life with this person, so he might as well be at the level you want.
At the same time, I wanted to comment on the guys who you think are not well-educated. There are some that are lazy, or don't have the same motivations to get a decent education. At the same time, there are some guys who are unable to pursue a post secondary degree or go to grad school because of their circumstances. Sure some people were able to fight for such an education and did well, but it does not happen for everybody. And maybe such guys are not that educated or don't have the type of careers that you would be looking for , but for some girls they are fine and they end up being decent partners.
I think just as you have a right to want a certain type of guy, those guys who go back home have a right to marry who they think will suit them as a partner. And I know lots of girls from the west who went back home to marry. It all comes down to personal preferance . But I don't think it's right to blame guys for marrying from back in Pakistan. it's their life. They can. I think there are still plenty of guys who do choose to marry girls from here. At the end of the day it's hard to be upset at people who are only doing what they think is best for them.