No it does not match the husbands.
Thats what i am trying to point out mehnaz. These men won't get such girls abroad, like a school drop out, running a grocery store finds a pharmacist from Pakistan, a divorced ordinary looking 40ish find a beautiful 22 year graduate from Pakistan. They wont get these matches in west.
And i am just pointing it out people, not saying its right, don't shoot the messenger.
life1 is notorious for people ignoring most of what the OP is actually saying/asking.
the girls here might not like to hear it but the simple fact is pakistan has a huge population and pretty, educated girls aren't hard to find these days. something i've become aware of only by going to pakistan on a regular basis.
everyone wants the best offer. to be honest, i know very few girls here, even if they themselves have very little to offer that will go for a grocery store worker. so if said guy can get a decent rishta in pakistan, why won't he?
as for all the girls weebling about who will marry the girls here. those girls usually find a better rishta themselves in pak (than they would here). so everyone is a winner.
everyone in my generation is getting married at the moment (all between 24-30). some to people from pakistan, some to people from the UK.
the only ones having problems are the ones who are closed to many options. like a relative who is a doctor, who will only consider other doctors from the UK and who is uncompromising about changing her life after marriage. i'm not saying she's wrong but obviously if she's narrowed down what she wants so much, it's gonna be hard.