So in other words this is based on assumption as well, so in that case aren`t you playing a blind as to importing someone, i mean if you were to bring a "pious" a non-north american larkee with "non-goray" khayalaat , you are saying they are a better bet, hmmmmm. The reason i ask you this is because sometimes ppls generalisation kindda bothers me key pakistan kee mazhabi aur hamaarey rasm-o-rivaajon ko jaanney waali larkee jis ko aap jaantay hon ya na jaantey hon is safe other than a desi north american larkee who is in front of you, in the same place and you can do a lot more background check and everything based on generalisation and pure assumption key larkee key khayalaat mileingey nahi without even giving her a chance. Amazing.
There is some generalization....no doubt. But as far as background checks go for example, back home the main checks ppl run are on each others families...ie...are they legit, well known and well respected etc...when it comes to the girl...the less info flying around about the girl in social circle, the better it is....in North America...parents rarely know what their daughters are upto once they are off a certain age and 'working or studying' on their 'own'.
For that matter things back home have changed too...meaning girls back home have also adopted a lot of things from the west...however again, ppl seem to be more comfortable dealing with girls and families back home....maybe its also because they also believe girls from back home would be willing to try harder or compromise a little more to make things work.