I am not saying as in argumentative(even that may be true) I am saying women having the need to confront more on any little thing, like a niyola who doesn’t know when to give up on a saanp (snake) though that does sort of means arguentative I guess…:aq:
Monk, I found it daring, like a shair, woh kehtay hain aik din shair bun kay rehna zyada brave hai 100 days geedur bun kay rehnay se (brave to live out 1 day as a lion than a 100 as a jackal)
That has a nice ‘lets not attack Shak’ ring to it when read by people so yes thats what I mean
Side-tracking the topic, another thing I should have added to my list :aq:
Monk, koi baat nahi torah zakhmi ho jai gey lekin izat to rahe gee na phir bravery kee (you’ll get scratched but you’ll still have the honour of bravery right)
Women are generally more passive aggressive rather than confrontational. This may be caused by the feeling of powerlessness, preventing them from taking appropriate action which would be would be confronting the individual involved and discussing the issue in a calm and healthy manner. The absence of power creates the idea that the issue will remain unresolved regardless of the route that is taken in attempt to reach a resolution. This leads to women handling the issue irresponsibly by talking about others behind their back, and avoiding all sense of responsibility.
The other point you brought up is women tend discuss matters that have little or no relevance. We have to use the “One person’s trash is another person’s treasure” concept in order to understand this behavior. An issue that may seem minimal to one, may impact another individuals life greatly. Maybe the woman involved understands that her problem is small but is taking the initiative to discuss the issue in order to prevent the matter from getting out of hand. Women are more analytical, we tend to break down all pieces of the picture, and re-construct them in our mind to help others better understand our emotions and prevent problems from occurring in the future.
Because men are **********, annoying little liars. They dont talk, socialise with anyone, they think they are above the law, and can do and say whatever they wish and get away with it because they are a man......the reason we need to speak up, and confront, is because if we didnt, we would still be in the stone age, and still be being beaten around by men and told what to do........you got a problem with that?
Because men are **********, annoying little liars. They dont talk, socialise with anyone, they think they are above the law, and can do and say whatever they wish and get away with it because they are a man......the reason we need to speak up, and confront, is because if we didnt, we would still be in the stone age, and still be being beaten around by men and told what to do........you got a problem with that?
I’m that way with people I’m close to. If I’m unhappy with something they did or said, I like to let them know and “confront” them rather than bottling it inside and having grudges. Grudges don’t do a relationship any good and neither do misunderstandings, I think it’s best to come clean about something you dislike..it’s makes for a stronger relationship.
Women are more confrontational because we like to get to the bottom of things, we also like to find-out who the real 'trouble-makers' are and get rid of them as well. If someone hides from being confronted and gives lame excuses, rest assured they've lied.