Why are we desis so racist?

I ask this question…sorry to say that i see alot of racism in our culture
why do we as pakistanis feel the need to judge and look down on people based on their race, nationality or skin color?

im bothered when i see people do this…for no reason…

it bothers me too…because we desis tend to isolate ourselves…yet we seem to say so many negative things about blacks, whites, etc…

i mean…how can we do this when we dont even spend the time to befriend them?

i read in another thread on gupshup too…this one forumer was complaining about the stares and treatment that she was receiving from a BLACK security guard…so its okay to look at blacks and think they are all murderers, killers and rapist???

was the black security guard suppose to ignore you and assume because ur desi you have higher moral and values and that u cant possible ever steal since ur paki…is this why ur angry?

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but but but but

by saying that why us dsis are so racist, you are being racist yourself by singling desis out as being racists ;)

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it's not all desis

i've mainly seen racism from aunties and unkals who were brought up in Pakistan.

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no i am not...people always seem to get confused by the definition of racism

you should NEVER claim racism unless u genuinely experienced such things...its not fair to the people who are TRULY racially discriminated against

racism - thinking ur superior to another, thinking ur smarter and have better moral values and upbringing than another group, putting others at a disadvantage based on what they look like, treating people inhumanely based on their race...THAT IS RACISM

racism isnt me pointing out alot of the horrible things i see people from our culture do to others

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that also makes you a racist because you're singling out a desi to be a racist because that desi is singling out other desis to be racist.

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i have to disagree..i see COLORISM alot from the older generation...they might think someone is better or more valuable for lighter skin...

but i see alot more RACISM from our younger generation (35 and under)....

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lol...thats true though....by you saying that he is racist is just as silly as he saying that i am racist...

why blame me for pointing something out that is very true....why not instead look at the situation???

i know everybody is aware...because we being desis...we see it all the time in our house.....i mean....dont u think its so wrong to judge people for simply being white or black?

regardless of race..people are very much the same...but we desis dont think that.....we look up to whites...and we dont treat blacks as if they are human beings...its stupid

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saying a person is racist is very different than saying that a race/ethnicity/nationality is racist :)

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okay...let me ask you this....

do you think pakistanis treat blacks the same way they treat whites or other pakistanis? :D

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You are stereotyping ..the way you have done in the title of your thread "wy are we desis so racist" ... its a blanket statement, which is stereotyping and accusing a whole group of some ill.

at minimum you are engaging in unwarrated negative stereotyping :)

and by that token, what you are saying 'desis' do is also not racism, but also negative stereotyping.

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how many pakistanis have you seen killing blacks in the streets like pakistanis kill other pakistanis.

figure that out and you have your answer ;)

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i am simply pointing out something i observe almost EVERYDAY....my actions are not to inflict harm....but to figure out why we do this and how to improve ourselves as people...

its not like saying "blacks are stupid and lazy"...thats a harmful stereotype meant to destroy a person's moral

there is a difference

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fighting is fighting wherever you go...every country u will see fighting...whether u are in pakistan or ireland or liberia....its common place and has nothin to do with what i am talking about

so what? pakistanis are fighting each other in pakistan....what does that have to do with treating blacks like sub-human???

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do you see all desis do it? or do you see some desis do it? do you know all desis in the world? if not how can you attribute a negative stereotype to an entire group?

of course its the same thing. a black person may hate being told that his community is stupid and lazy, just like a desi can be offended at being called a racist

There is not. Because by the type of logic that led you to make the statement you used as the title of the thread, the same type of logic can be used to state that blacks are stupid and lazy. and per yoru own admission if the latter statement is racist, then the first one is racist too.

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obviously you have no clue how pakistanis treat each other. The entire strugle going on because diff ethnicities, sects and all feel that they are not getting a fair shake.

Let me guess, teenager living in UK or US?

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i think ur avoiding the issue...which is the main problem....

if i told you, "ur stupid and lazy and ur worth nothing"...i think that is ALOT more harmful than me saying, "i think our community needs to be more open and tolerant of different racial groups"

european pseudo-intellectual logic doesnt sway me....its not the same thing and you know it

okay....even if what i said...u think is "racist"..good we established that point

now..i ask you....do u think it is right for people to treat someone as inferior? not as a human being? judge them based on their appearance? do u think its right for people to teach their children to judge people and isolate themselves from others by claiming superiority?

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yes...but we werent talking about that....we are talking about pakistanis and their treatment to other racial groups (outside of pakistan)

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phrase the 'issue' properly and we can discuss.

sorry, whether u call someone stupid and lazy or call them racist they are both insults, saying one is worse than the other does not slice the pizza.

I think logic does not sway you :)

its not that I think its racist, it is racist, period.

any sort of negative stereotyping and racism is wrong, including the one that is shown in the title of this thread.

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yes..because MY racial stereotyping has inflicted harm upon you and ur community and caused you to be at a socio-economical disadvantage…:snooty:

and pakistanis are NOT racist…lol

what r u trying to prove..just discuss the issue..it wouldnt kill u…unless you feel justified in believing that we dont have a problem with discriminating against blacks :hoonh:

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and what is your view of treatment other racial groups hand out to Pakistanis. :)
because, hate begets hate..does it not