Re: Why are Pakistani men such begerat?
Well that’s kind of my point right? You did the same with Muslim men. I also feel like it is much more true with white men…there are huge markers for racial, educational disparity and favoritism for white men in this society. All this jazz you hear in the media these days against multiculturalism, why don’t we hear it in Dubai, Kuwait, Qatar, Kinshasa, Singapore? Clearly race play HUGE factors in the Western world. Also speaking of generalizing…since when are ‘white’ and Muslim mutually exclusive terms? There are HUGE bosnian expat populations in the NL and Scandinavia, here in the US, many Arabs too identify as ‘white.’
Yet Muslim Americans have some of the best marriages and lack of disparity (women slightly more educated, strong educational and income parity), the most diverse congregations in the US. There’s a lot of things to be proud of, and to struggle for within our own community, part of bettering that community is the process of addressing its problems, and I don’t think ANY sex marrying outside of it (three of four madhabs in Islam forbid this is non-Muslim majority countries) addresses these problems- regardless of what these tribal sexist Arabized Pakistani and Arab mullahs say. I also find it troublesome that Pakistanis marry into their own caste, counsins, arabs into their own dialects and village and ****t and them use that small experience to speak of ‘Muslim men’ or ‘Muslim women’, a term as diluted a ‘Christian women’ ‘Christian men’, when they really didn’t consider anyone outside their ethnic background in the first place, got frustrated and juts gave up. Here’s a report with statistics…not just pulling this ****t out of the air.
Again I had a sister go through divorce in an abusive relationship. I really empathize with you sister, and hopefully you at least raise your kids Muslims and hopefully have a Muslim spouse one day.