**Domestic violence in Pakistan is an endemic social problem. According to a study carried out in 2009 by Human Rights Watch, it is estimated that between 70 and 90 percent of women in Pakistan have suffered some form of abuse.[SUP][1]](Domestic violence in Pakistan - Wikipedia)[/SUP] ****Asthugfirullah. TMI
I would say Arabs and Pakistanis are proabbly the worst to their wives. In the states thankfully all of us who deal with stupid fathers like this, seek to learn from their mistakes, and treat our wives like princesses (what I plan to do inshallah), but why this embedded ‘kanjar menality’ in Pakistani men?
For instance in Pakjabi culture, I notice that men think that kids and wife should ‘give’ respect ot the man of the house…respect, for me, is not something given to you by your kids and wive, it is EARNED from them. Why the mentality? Is this one of the symptoms of the Arabization of Pakistan? Could someone explain?
WHat amazes me the most is how the wives who earn these slaps try to protect the husband…I remember myself and brotherw ould protect mom from her beating only to have her protect my dad, like wtf?
Lots of funny jokes from women who also complain about being on the short end...I guess 70%+ domestic violence rate is funny to you guys. Pakistan is a joke. Then again I'm speaking to people who won't even mind lying to themselves about their ancestors and zaat coming from Hindus lol...
Domestic violence is rife in the Western world too, to accuse all Pakistani men of this behavior is a bit silly. Our country has issues with a crap justice system which means women can’t report it properly. As for protecting husbands, considering how divorced women are treated in our society protecting their abusive husbands vs being kicked out is hardly a surprise.
The behaviour you described is due to lack of education or lack of decency.
Haven't you heard hadith:
"The best among you is the one who is the best towards his wife". Hadith - Muslim
Men who abuse are usually not the only ones to blame, its us women who let them treat us like this and get away with it. I have seen so many desi husbands who boss their wives, make their wives be a slave to him and his parents,wives having to put up with evil mother in laws and not allowed to talk back to his mother, making her cook for him and his family, and those women still stick to those beghairat husbands. its just sad how much pakistani women are willing to put up with. its not just physical abuse, but i think this kind of mental abuse is present in atleast 95% of pakistanis. so i do agree, majority of pakistani men are indeed beghairat to some extent.
This is because they are not good muslims, like poster above qouted. They still have not forgotten the hindu mentality of burning the bride when husband dies.
This is because they are not good muslims, like poster above qouted. They still have not forgotten the hindu mentality of burning the bride when husband dies.
Men who abuse are usually not the only ones to blame, its us women who let them treat us like this and get away with it. I have seen so many desi husbands who boss their wives, make their wives be a slave to him and his parents,wives having to put up with evil mother in laws and not allowed to talk back to his mother, making her cook for him and his family, and those women still stick to those beghairat husbands. its just sad how much pakistani women are willing to put up with. its not just physical abuse, but i think this kind of mental abuse is present in atleast 95% of pakistanis. ** so i do agree, majority of pakistani men are indeed beghairat to some extent.**
Most of my extended family lives in Pakistan and I have never seen this attitude from any of them. Just like I can't judge the situation of men-women of the entire country based on experiences of people I know; its equally invalid for people to say all Pak men are baighairat.
Women do get abused in Pakistan, no denying that. I have seen poor housemaids beaten black and blue first hand, but that type of violence is rife everywhere. Domestic violence like rape and murder isn't a Pakistan only issue. Maybe the degree to which it happens is worse in Pakistan.
I was very serious… … It seems like people are NEVER happy… If I hate on Pakistani men then they don’t like it… If I shower my love over Pakistani men then the reaction is the same for liking em…
Am I reading positive review on Pakistani Men…
