Re: Why are Pakistani men such begerat?
No it’s not. Right now there is the case of Oscar Pistorius going on in South Africa, about him murdering his own girlfriend. He’s not white trash is he? He’s a global athletic star. Jimmy Savile is not white trash. These are the top two examples I can think of where the men aren’t white trash. Abuse happens, whether it be emotional, physical, sexual, regardless of economic status.
Mental abuse happens because we let it. We are not as well educated as a community about it. And to be frank, neither is anyone else unless they have themselves gone through it. There are plenty of white people examples if you browse the internet enough, where a female, regardless of her age is being controlled/abused by her significant other (male OR female). Heck it doesn’t even have to be a significant other. Just today I read this headline: Ottawa student leader subject of explicit Facebook chat by 5 students. They wrote “Someone punish her with their shaft” and “I do believe that with my reputation I would destroy her”. These are university students, not white trash.
I can only talk about what I have personally seen. I personally have not seen white or nondesi american men treating their wives/girlfriends/fiancees the way pakistani men do. Even if there are selected case as you have mentioned, its still not as rampant as it is with desis.