Why Are Men So Insecure?

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Escalad, I was just being harsh to you cause it was obvious that your were not ready to take other's point of view. You were just seeking an agreement from others.

Anyway, my issue is not that your side of the story is not right. I am sure that all those accusations coming from him are bothersome

What I wanted to say that all men are not insecure like your title implies.

Buut just to be on his side, men have a very straight forward mind, so when they see a problem, they come up with a simplistic reason why that must have happened

In your case, if you guys had a good past and for wahtever reason the breakup happened, the first reason his mind came up with .. Oh there must be another guy in her life who replaced me

Anyhoo, I am sorry for any harsh words. It was not my intention to hurt you further with my words as this must be hard times for you.

He will get over that accusation part soon. I am sure that he is angry cause he loves u as much as u do.

I wish both of you a great and happy future (separately, off course :D)

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Pissed off at something? He should have spoken to me about it instead of accusing me of having another guy.

Doesn't matter now, what's done is done, life goes on.

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Is this the first time? Did you leave him before and dated other guys or is he just making this up? Maybe he's just pissed off at you because you claim to love him (as you stated in this thread) yet make irrational decisions that not only impact yourself, but him as well.

You don't seem to be the type who likes to listen to anybody, and make sudden instinct decisions on your own that you probably will regret later on.

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Why should I listen to anyone if it's between me and him?

I'm not asking for relationship advice.

Asif quit it alright.

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Cauz its hard for a man to accept defeat :)

He'll cool down with time.

Mill gaya jawab ... hoor kuj :)

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Then talk to him and keep it between you and him.

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Exactly. You don't want to know how she dealt with the guy in discussion. You're suspicions are right though.

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doesn’t it feel good to take your anger out at some random guy from GS :hehe:

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Every f'cking time a girl comes to the Internet and complains about her life...oh I forgot, you don't have a real life, it's only virtual...I tell you one thing which I experienced 3 times and it wasn't my fault, no one can BURN someone better than a woman...My best friend comitted suicide 3 years ago because of his brainf'cked girl!

one year ago I found out that she lied to get rid of him...she made assumptions that he is not loving her anymore and that she saw him with a girl in the park...
It was a big lie...Itni barri sasish...tum kahani sunno gi naa, marjao gi...2 years she pretented to be broken...and in MSN she says to one of my friends - she doesn't know that this is my friend, too - I'm so glad that my boyfriend is gone...he was such a burden for me...

Everytime I see her, dil kar ta hai, uska galla daba doon...

It broke my heart into pieces...My best friend is dead and it's like I'm dead, too.
you wanna know who is the perfect killer, but pretends to be innocent, A GIRL and men has to suffer for your f'cking assumptions, for your f'cking judgment, for your f'cking brainf'cked thoughts...I'm sorry for swearing, but a girl can really f'ck you in the back...even for the smallest harsh word he says to you and my friend never said anything to her...had always her name on the lips...loved her to death and now he's gone...

isliye to orat ki tadaad marad se seyada hoi gi hell meyn...I don't hate women, I hate their stupid arguments...

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Damn i'm sorry to hear that man.

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Im confused but hey thumbs up for dragging fathers and brothers into discussion and people in fcuked up relations themselves giving such godly advice.

Keep it up :k:

Escalade, I understand why you are angry, probably because you are being accused of something you havent done by someone to whom you stayed committed to.

Its not healthy to boil your blood over it, in the end no matter what masks people wear in this world to fool others, the God upstairs knows the truth.

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Just try to remember if you have accused him in similar wayS before. Now understand how he must have felt.