Why Are Men So Insecure?

Why oh why?

It’s one thing having to deal with a breakup but it’s another when you’re accused of cheating, or immediately jumping into another relationship with another guy. Wtf??

Why are men so stupid to think feelings can be switched on and off just like that??

Why is it not possible for them to just freakin accept things how they are?

As tough as a woman can be, these type of accusations can ****ing hurt.

No men reply, I don’t want to read your bull**** opinions.

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to complicated to understand what the issue is, so can't answer any ways.

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Awwwwwwwww.. poor you

and that idiot ... who probably suffered no pain out of this breakup and had no reason to get angry or frustrated about this feeling of rejection that he got

and even if he was angry, how dare he vent out his anger . .he had no right to do that

cause he is a guy .. and guys are so so insecure

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^

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I don't know what you got up your ass, but no where did I mention that a man doesn't have the right to be angry or be in pain, you fool.

But it's WRONG for a guy to assume a woman would go from one guy to the other just like that, or for another guy to be the reason of the breakup.

That's disrespectful, you might as well just call her a ho.

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Especially, when you've told them time and time again, that's not the damn reason.

So wtf?

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interesting, follow up after jummah.

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Expecting the guy, whose trust on you has been shattered by that break up, to trust your reasoning.

What a great expectation

Guys are stupid .. .you know

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You sound like you're heartbroken..aww.

Besides it's the guy's fault it came to an end, that was like 90% of the break up already done, the other 10% is the chick making it official.

This aint about whether or not a man gets hurt because of a breakup, or trust or whatever. It's about them making stupid disrespectful assumptions, who knew a man who ''supposedly'' loved you could even think of you behaving in such an unmodest way.

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Ofcourse they are. I agree with your sarcasm.

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but wont it make U even stupider if you are expecting some sense from ones who are already stupid

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I cant understand either...most probably resulting from poor self esteem.

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You know it's ironic with me being a woman and all I have to say that I have come accross many women who are always so judgemental and suspicious toward their husbands.

If they are a bit tired and don't hug us, we think they are mad at us.
If they don't compliment us, we automatically think they don't care how we look.
If they talk to another woman, we assume he likes her.
If they don't tell us something, we assume that they are hiding details from us.
If they call their moms a couple of times a day, we think they are complaining about us.

Oh ladies, let us be true to ourselves. We are always testing our men.

So, what is all that? Insecurity? No, we are angels. Those mood swings and extreme levels of expectations are because we are so innocent.

I am a woman and I know I have weaknesses too. It's a pity we always blame the men for everything. It CAN be our fault too.

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^^ And Niksik just won a gift certificate of Dinner for two in a resturant of her choice

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It goes both ways. And all men and all women are not the same.

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That's exactly my point Pure_Sunlight. :biggthumb

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The guy probably has his reasons. Maybe the girl said a whole lot of emotional stuff and shared a ton of experiences with him and just let it go on the spot as if nothing happened.

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he dint deserve you
:hugz:

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@ Niksik, I feel where you're coming from but it's nothing like that. I appreciated everything he did for me, or what little he did.

TLK you know what, you should take you're whooped ass outta here.

I guess it's impossible for yall to understand fully because you don't know the whole situation.

@ Soimoi, he did, I love him, he'll always be a part of my life. But I don't deserve his harsh words.

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Why does he say harsh things?