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I don't know, I don't live in his head.
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mashaAllah TLK ...
btw. i kinda agree with Niksik too .. that men are mostly not always used as scapegoats to express their feelings.
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If he was always rude and disrespectful to you then that was his nature to be harsh with you. But if he was gentle and kind most of the time and said things that hurt you once in a while it was because he loves you and he feels entitled to criticize you.
Sometimes the littlest things hurt more when they come from people you love.
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ohh dont go on his words then.. they say things they dont mean… words are just words.. let them disappear in thin air…
cose u love himmm
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Bataow kahan rahta hay woh 
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:k: you are so right!
but let’s also keep in mind that not all women are alike and that some men do the same as well.
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Escalade, sometimes the relationships that are to be cherished the most are taken for granted. Instead we make extra effort to be kind, understanding and polite with people who we may not even know after a few years. Husband-wife relationships need constant oiling and special attention. All the time and effort we make in other relationships is fine, but if we redirect that effort toward our marriages there would be less confusion and less frustration.
I am not sure if this was a relationship heading toward marriage or if this is your spouse, but I hope you feel better. Sometimes harsh words may be a reflection of some other frustration. Ask Allah for comfort and peace and the ability to overcome the pain. :)
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TLK you know what, you should take you're whooped ass outta here.
No no, I am going to keep my whooped ass parked right here , cause what you are doing is the stupidest behavior of all
You are taking your personal experience (while telling us just one sided sorry ass story of yours) and generalizng it on all the men ..
may I remind your highness that your father is also a guy .. and your brother and many others who not only are secured themselves but providing a lots of security to their famiies
Just because you could not handle a realtionship or did not know how to, does not make all men insecure
My advice to you, grow up
or if you are not ready to listen to both sides, then stop posting your life stories here .
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Ok from what I understand of your post... you're saying that the guy believes the only reason you dumped him is because there's "someone else"... right? Ugh God I know a few guys like that too, its pretty sad. They usually think that they're perfect and that there's nothing they could ever do wrong, hence the only thing they can think of as a reason for you breaking up with them, is that there's someone else. Not that they have some shortcomings in themselves. Its really not even insecurity... its them consciously trying to turn things around and put the blame on you for the end of the relationship.
Let it go, such men are definitely not worth your tears or precious time worrying.
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My advice to you, grow up
Eh? A big part of growing up is learning to respect other people's wishes puttar. So which part of the following did you not get?
No men reply, I don't want to read your bull**** opinions.
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As i feel break up is very hurting 4 both not only gal guy also
people get very emotional n in so much pain think so they start running with their feelings may be thats why
try to forget every thing ?
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Eh? A big part of growing up is learning to respect other people's wishes puttar. So which part of the following did you not get?
Threads are open for all to partcipate,
I can show you my own thread in Life2 where I said "Guys only" and it probably has more girls than guys in it.
You cannot make a rule of your own when you post in a public forum
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Escalade...to me you sound pretty harsh yourself
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Some women are insecure and some men are insecure. The reason for insecurity of both are probably the same being lack of self-esteem.
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Escalade...to me you sound pretty harsh yourself
She's telling just her side of the story here, but looking at how she's dealing with TLK and how she doesn't want any males' advices, I wonder how she dealt with the guy in discussion.
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TLK stfu cause you’re talking smack. You don’t know jack about my life my father or brother. So don’t take this discussion elsewhere. No where in this thread did I post my side or his side of the story, so I’m not being biased in anyway, I posted fragments of what happened. Life story? I was asking a question about why men behave the way they do. You still sound like you’re crying off a bad experience yourself, so go ahead and do it.
It’s not about being worried or upset that a woman doesn’t get attention from a guy, that’s definately not the case here, there’re a hell lot of things that I can list that he’s done, which are the most amazing, and I always appreciate and respect him for that. It was just that one comment that kept occuring that I disliked, hence I asked about men and insecurities, I honestly couldn’t care if I generalized, boo hoo.
It pisses me off when he says **** like, ‘‘go be happy with him’’ etc, wtf? He talks to me like I have no self respect and just jump from one guy to the next.
And I know I’m not the only woman who has to deal with any type of bs from men.
Waits for TLK’s reply 
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Just because you could not handle a realtionship or did not know how to, does not make all men insecure
My advice to you, grow up
Lol this is funny, because you can't make a judgement like that, you don't know what the relationship was like, therefore it's wrong of you to even say that I wasn't able to handle it. It's the harsh comments that I can't handle, and don't need to handle.
You grow up, because you're throwing a ***** fit, I'm sure we can have a civilised discussion about this, without you being a sour ass. But oh well.
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If he was always rude and disrespectful to you then that was his nature to be harsh with you. But if he was gentle and kind most of the time and said things that hurt you once in a while it was because he loves you and he feels entitled to criticize you.
Sometimes the littlest things hurt more when they come from people you love.
Criticize me by assuming im already hooked with another guy? Saying **** like hope you're happy with him and it wont last?
Naw, that's not critical, that's disrespectful.
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He sounds pissed off at something and venting.
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With no offense to anyone, kindly consider:
http://www.paklinks.com/gs/showthread.php?t=249850
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In alot of places on internet code words like f***, wtf, bs…are legally used commonly by people, by now the meanings of which most of the people have learned from friends. Do stars, slashes or abreviations really makes it difficult for people to understand which alphabets are missing ?
I personally think an abusive word remains abusive no matter in which way it is conveyed.
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