why are guys so difficult to understand

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What is with guys… why are they so difficult to understand. Why cant they “talk” when there is something wrong… arrghhh I am just so mad…

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Re: why are guys so difficult to understand

^ You just have to know how to make the guy talk....:)

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Re: why are guys so difficult to understand

Aisha usko thapar maro phir dekhna kaise batain kerta hai

:p

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Re: why are guys so difficult to understand

aisha thats not guys that grls

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Most guys I know say exactly what's on their mind. Women, on the other hand, usually have a "meaning" behind what they're saying (I myself am guilty of this). Most women (including myself) usually try to "analyze" guys....when in reality guys are literally saying what they think/feel.

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when they don't talk it usually means there is something on their mind. If you ask enough times they'll give in and tell you :)

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OMG when you figure it out, let me know. They're all stupid and insecure. Abb mein kya boloon. It's like you finally get out of the damn friend zone and...:(

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Let him be. He will take care of it on his own. :p

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My girl friends often say how our guy friends for some reason always feel like they can talk to me. They'll talk to me about their problems, family, girls, etc. I don't know why that is. I also find it confusing at times... maybe I sense a problem and somehow get around to asking about it.

From my experience, guys don't like to be told that they're wrong- or at least not right away. So when they talk, don't immediately interrupt with your judgement. Although they usually tell me about their problems without being asked.... Sometimes you can't just simply ask "What's wrong?"... you have to make your way around it by asking how their day is, how their family is, how school/job is, how their gf is doing, etc. Another important thing is trust. Girls tend to gossip and my guy friends have told me before how I don't gossip as much as others and they can trust me.

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Very true.

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Guys I find are not that difficult to understand...most of the time what they say is what they mean....only sometimes you do get some fools....but you always know when a guy is lying...they can't look at you directly when they are lying (according to my experience).

Us women on the other hand..we are MORE complex than all of them :p

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Re: why are guys so difficult to understand

thats the issue with men and women. get over it. Either be with the person who is open about their feelings with you and you understand well, or stop wasting your time over someone where it takes so much time to figure out whats on their mind.
SIMPLE!

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Re: why are guys so difficult to understand

aisha..maybe he wants to be left alone for awhile to calm down or think about things

dont pester him about it..guys hate that when girl nags him..woh khudi teek hojaiga jab he is ready

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Re: why are guys so difficult to understand

because we women are more emotional than men and most of the men can not relate to feelings of others. They keep themselves first and rest as secondary whereas women keep their men first and themselves second.

the best strategy is to IGNORE it works 99% of the time .

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Maybe ask once or so... if they dont want to talk about it, then just let them be. I am sure when they feel the need to talk, they will. And instead of being narky back, just be kind and listen to what they have to say.

They're not that difficult to understand. They're pretty simple beings

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exactly...guys always take things in their face value...

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Aisha, there r many ways to make a man talk

and TRUST me they are not so difficult at all ;)

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hehehehe cuz otherwise, they won't be guys :p

dont over analyze anything, that's the speciality of women. just let him be and he'll come and talk to you eventually.

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Guys are simple. There is nothing to it, really.

When they act like that, leave them alone and pretend like you'd rather be washing your hair than be in their company.

Works like a charm.

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Re: why are guys so difficult to understand

becoz they r all f'ing wankers