Re: Why are girls so obsessed with marriage?
its culture, i know many people in the US who are in their late 20's early 30's and are desi and marriage is not their top priority list, where as people generally in pakistan/india... that's very high on their priority list.
I think its because from day 1 the emphasis on girls in pakistan/india is placed on getting married.. where as in the us its more emphasized to get an education, job, establish urself.
Re: Why are girls so obsessed with marriage?
it depends, i used to be a total prude in high school where i saw even dating as a major no no. did everything very carefully.
but now that i've been through certain traumatic experiences that have opened my eyes a bit, i think only companionship and love/caring/respect is what many seek. as long as the two people are happy and are committed to each other for the long run. plus is sex really that important, you hear of so many sexless marriages or love less marriages. that just seems like torture.
as conservative as my parents are, and as hurt as they might feel they know what i've been through and if i don't see marriage as something that's right for me, i know whatever decision i make they'll support me in the future.
who knew i would go from one extreme way of thinking(so very very conservative)to this....now
Re: Why are girls so obsessed with marriage?
Intimacy (including sex) is one of those things where, once you start getting it, you can't really live without it...
Re: Why are girls so obsessed with marriage?
, i know whatever decision i make they'll support me in the future.
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Then you are one of the luck ones. Most often, its the parents who kick their daughter down the cliff :)
Re: Why are girls so obsessed with marriage?
Intimacy (including sex) is one of those things where, once you start getting it, you can't really live without it...
Isnt that true only for males?
Re: Why are girls so obsessed with marriage?
Isnt that true only for males?
LMAO! :p
sheltered cough lifestyle cough :D