why are all desis copycats?

i dont understand that when u wear a new style, try a new hall/venue, make a new food at ur function…everyone copies you. some even flat out tell you..oh i love your new idea im gonna copy that! do desi’s in general have no new ideas and are just showoffs who pretend to have $ but are too cheap to spend it?
:grumpy:
someone tell me why this is?

Re: why are all desis copycats?

so queen what did they actually copy from you:faizy:

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stupid patehtic things which is annoying....

like i have a bag....they will go out and try to get an something so similar
decorations i had at my party ...try to do exact thing
had a new food....everyone said its so delicous i went to 2 parties later and ppl started serving it too and even others noticed and said ohh thats what she had at her party....million other things i dont remember

last wk someone got a new hall instaed of the usual old ones someone said hey someone have a party and rent this hall again its so nice!

i guess i should take it as flattery as no one seems to have an original idea or mind of thier own!

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Queenbee, You should take it as flattery cuz really there is no point and getting ticked off at such things cuz they will happen over and over again. Thats how I see it. its a good thing ppl like what you come up with and want to do the same...its like u r a celebrity..lol

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lol..dont get annoyed queen bee...you're a trend setter! =D

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hhah thaks guys.....btw....im not mad!! a little annoyed and more just curious as to why it is ?? i guess i alway try to be differnt and original i guess i just dont understand why people copy!!

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Lol i understand wht u mean lekin u know wht it is some desis think tht wht some one else is doein is okay but if they do it by them self they can do it better....u know some ppl are just like tht i get annoyd so many times lekin wht can i (u) do

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as they say imitation is the best form of flattery. copying for me is not an issue, but when ppl go to all lengths to 'prove' that they arrived at the same thing independently :D

the annoying thing is when you know they copied, when they know they copied, when they know that you know they copied and when they know that you know that they know you copied....yet they would go and invent stories about well, i was thinking about it 3 years ago, and what nots.

whats the shame in saying, dude that was amazing, I think I will do the same at my event.

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:hmmm:

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[quote="Fraudz"]

as they say imitation is the best form of flattery. copying for me is not an issue, but when ppl go to all lengths to 'prove' that they arrived at the same thing independently :D

I agree with that...that is wat really gets annoying

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it was intended to be a head spinning not chin rubbing sentence

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mein nei to kuch nahee kaha
i was just thinkin :blush:

but i don’t like copycats chahe kitna hi flattering kyuu na ho
if i have something new dont matters wht i really don;t like when dozens ppl do the same thing :S

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You know its funny when this happens to me..I usually joke it off for example one time people asked why this other friend got the same purse like mine …I say..“cuz we are purse twins:D”…I usally dont mind…like Mr Frauds said…copying is the best form of Flattery..and I take it like that…I have had a friend of mine copy exactly where and how my wedding was…I didnt mind it..just found it funny !

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i think its pathetic...my wedding dress was also copied...(color, design..even the color of my lips)..i think the wedding dress should be left alone...you can try to copy other things....but dont copy someone's wedding outfit..it just makes them feel unspecial...not flattered..

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i just hate wen ppl get jealous and try to do the same or get the same etc...

lame

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Exactly wot i was gonna say....this is nuffin to be angry about so wot if u helped em get sum new ideas woh khud nahi soch saktay hongay na.....but why are all desis copycats???Pakistan mai tau aisa nahi hota :P

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how do u you know they are copy cats or copying you to prove a point. halls and food are out there for everyone . im sure the hall n bag u have must have been used before you . should those ppl call u a copycat. if ppl like sumfin they will use it too. no need to get all stressed about it . lolz

it really amuses me when ppl gt so huffed about sucn teeny weeny issues.

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im not stressed just asking a question and putting it out there....god why do people assume just cuz i asked a question i want to like kill myself over this?? god stop reading wayyy too much into things! u people are sound a lot more angry than i ever did in my question!

and btw....what point could they possibly be trying to prove? i dont even think that makes sense!?!?!?

and yeah people might have it but no one i know! i dont copy my freinds who have things and run out and get the exact same out a month later. and insult my things when i do have them. im talking abut people who insult the things u have and pretend like its nothing and cant give a single compliment on it but then run out and get it later so yeah they are copying.

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it is in our Pakistani blood ;) How can we not copy things...it is our quomi nishan lol

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I dnt mind this thing, Actually this is always quite flattering for me whn someone copy me :D