Re: why anal and oral are an exeption?
** Anway, anal sex is haraam, and explicitly prohibited in the Quran. Reasoning? Has nothing to do with whether or not a female would be willing. There are lots of women who are willing, but that doesn't determine whether the act should be haraam or not.
Anal sex involves the anal canal and rectum. If you only knew what grows in that area of your body, my friend, you would wash your hands 20 times after you visit the bathroom and do a #2. So, why would you want to put your genitals in that area? It leads to various genital infections. **
Oral sex, is different. Its not explicitly prohibited in the Quran, although it is discouraged by scholars, because it too can lead to medical problems. Whereas, genital-genital contact will not spread infections because your genital mucosa is adapted to the sexual contact with another person's genitals. STD's would be an exception, but then, STD's can be easily avoided by healthy and safe sexual practices. Whereas, you can't stop E.coli from being transferred from someone's anal canal to a man's penile urethra.
BTW, I remember there being an explicit ayah in the Quran, which I don't see posted here (although I might have missed it when perusing the thread). It talks specifically of avoiding anal sex. And there's really no confusion about the terms used. It clearly talks about anal sex. :)
Exactly! It's common sense that's all. It's so disgusting that it has been explicitly prohibited instead of left up to speculation.
But hey watever floats your boat