people do not let it go and move on ? Why do they start stalking ? Is it the rejection they cannot take ? Is it post breakup dissonance , meaning that they realize after the ultimate act of breakup that the other person was not as bad as they thought ?
Disclaimer: Hey I never had to suffer a breakup or rejection so I do not know . I just see it happening all the time around me. Many have leaned on my shoulder and cried after a breakup.
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I think it's more like the feeling of losing your possession. It's a human nature to get attached to the person you have spent time with whether you love the person or not. We also start taking it granted to have someone close to us. But once the person is gone, a harsh reality hit us and then we don't know what to do. We become confused and start running around, mentally and/or physically in order to adjust to the loss! May be we want to get the person back but it's a bit too late!
people do not let it go and move on ? Why do they start stalking ? Is it the rejection they cannot take ? Is it post breakup dissonance , meaning that they realize after the ultimate act of breakup that the other person was not as bad as they thought ?
Disclaimer: Hey I never had to suffer a breakup or rejection so I do not know . I just see it happening all the time around me. Many have leaned on my shoulder and cried after a breakup.
Mirch this is a very interesting topic
Mirch this is a very interesting topic
Then contribute your thoughts about this topic please.
Re: Why after a breakup
Well I wonder the same thing but have never been able to understand people who do that. I mean personally I think they should move on. However, some people don't really do that :)
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breakups are nasty i ve seen people who became suicidal not just women ive also seen men goin completly psychotic after being dumped.but i guess they cant really help falling inlove.but then y are people so desperate???
but then y are people so desperate???
exactly, I fail to understand this part too.
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They need to listen to this song
exactly, I fail to understand this part too.
well i think rejection drives men nuts,n girls are just born desperate
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I wouldn't know. Nobody wants me
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well maybe if you shaved your back...
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i guess why people still wanna get back with the relationship becuz they dont have any back ups.... if break up happens for some reason, they can always rely on the back up.
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Some ppl. need to listen to this song. It’s bound to cheer them up 
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I have always moved on :) lol
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^ U never know - you may get even
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I guess it's the basic philosophy...you never know what you have until you have lost it....
I wouldn't know. Nobody wants me
My boys are too young otherwise I will send rishta. If you can wait for 18 to 20 years when they will become doctors, Inshallah. One wants to be a neuro surgeon and the other one a Family Physician and a rapper . He wants to cure sick people using music I guess.
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my friend's brother broke up with his girlfind and her frind started to help him get over it and they both fell in love and now they are married. Funny how things happen.