meri sister ki shaadi muj se pehlay ho ri hy. voh muj se choti hy.menay apni ami ko kha hy ke yai nai ho sukta.aakhir pehlay baron ki shaadi hoti hy na.
what u think i shud do?![]()
meri sister ki shaadi muj se pehlay ho ri hy. voh muj se choti hy.menay apni ami ko kha hy ke yai nai ho sukta.aakhir pehlay baron ki shaadi hoti hy na.
what u think i shud do?![]()
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ummm..... jump off da bridge :(
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Dont get in the way of your sister. I have a friend who is of marriageable age and her sister is kind of passing it. The sister is sooo fussy about guys that my friend feels she will never get married at this rate. Be happy for her, after all its in her kismat before you move on and as the above pster said wait your turn!
meri sister ki shaadi muj se pehlay ho ri hy. voh muj se choti hy.menay apni ami ko kha hy ke yai nai ho sukta.aakhir pehlay baron ki shaadi hoti hy na.
what u think i shud do?:)
wait and watch:teary1
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Mohterma striptease aap 40 roz subha uth ker bila-naagha aadhay badaam ko pees ker choti sister ko khilaiye, aur phir us k susraal jaa ker bhangra daaliye. Inshalah afaaqa hoga aur shadi ruk jaegi.
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^ LOL Janwaar!!
Ur being successfully brainwashed. Congratulations my friend :k:
you are advising like RISHTA TORWANY WALI MASI ![]()
meri sister ki shaadi muj se pehlay ho ri hy. voh muj se choti hy.menay apni ami ko kha hy ke yai nai ho sukta.aakhir pehlay baron ki shaadi hoti hy na.
what u think i shud do?:)
nothing wrong with it. i ve seen it happen, keh 2 bhaiun ya 2 behnoun mein barey ki shadi baad mein hoti hei , so just feel good for your sister. all the best
meri sister ki shaadi muj se pehlay ho ri hy. voh muj se choti hy.menay apni ami ko kha hy ke yai nai ho sukta.aakhir pehlay baron ki shaadi hoti hy na.
what u think i shud do?:)
Its not written anywhere that you have to get married according to age so stop thinking about silly things and be HAPPY for your sister!
meri sister ki shaadi muj se pehlay ho ri hy. voh muj se choti hy.menay apni ami ko kha hy ke yai nai ho sukta.aakhir pehlay baron ki shaadi hoti hy na.
what u think i shud do?:)
If you're trolling.......get a life.
If you can't manage to do that........come up with better troll topics.
If you're in earnest about your topics......that's even MORE sad.
Your views thus far have been that:
**1) **Women should be stay at home moms and shouldn't work (you didn't take into account the various situations)
2) People should stay in a broken/dysfunctional marriage for the sake of the kids. (again not taking into account that every marriage is different)
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3)** And you tactlessly told a member that you were shocked that she STILL wasn't married at the age of 30 some. (It's funny you should say something like that considering that YOU yourself are not married yet).
But alas.......there's always that possibility that one is not trolling around and is serious about the threads they create. In that case...............you need to understand that everybody has a different kismat. And to get in the way of someone's happiness is selfish. Yes, it may be easier said than done to be wholeheartedly happy for a younger sibling getting married, first. But.....how long is one supposed to wait for you to get your life at the point you want it to be at? This is the real world. Friends and coworkers and strangers won't wait for you. Your family, at least, will have the heart to consider your feelings and wait a bit. That's zulm. There are so many things in life that we may not be truly happy about.......but to preserve relationships........you have to grin and bear it. I have friends and cousins in the same situation as you. And they were happy and supportive for their younger siblings when they got married before them. The same Allah who grants other people blessings also controls your life as well. He has a plan for everyone.
********If you ARE trolling........the sad thing is that some people (naive ones) may be wrongly influenced by your ideas.
And besides you said that "shaade **HO RAHY **hai" and that, to me, means the wedding preps are in full swing. If you wanted to PREVENT the shadi.......it should haven been way before things got to this point. Obviously, your parents.......ammi..........DOES NOT agree with you. Your parents, more than likely, don't think you're being reasonable.......perhaps detect a bit of selfishness. And thankfully, your parents (if this indeed is a true story)..........are NOT among those parents who are consumed by the fear of "log kya kahain gay." They're stronger than that.
So, be an achi si bachi..........shaabash.........and try to put on a happy face for your sister. Maybe Allah will reward you for efforts by hitching you up with someone nice. Sometimes, when you wait.....you get better. Your sister's marriage may allow her to make more social contacts and thus help you out with your situation.
Also, I don't know what type of ideas you'd want us to suggest. Were you hoping we'd say that you should sabotage the wedding? Perhaps give your sister the evil eye or a guilt trip? Would you really be pleased with yourself in the end? Just grin and bear it. Be good.....because what goes around tends to come around.
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TROLL ALERTTT ... and a crappy one at that
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Troll Alert!
ps. get her married first. after her, every other rishta will be coming for you ;)
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would someone tell me what a troll is?
let ur sister get married...dont be so selfish please...insha'allah you will have a wonderful rishta when ur time comes...but it is allah's will that it is not ur time...but it is ur sister's time....so say alhamdulillah ...ya'allah iss mein teri taraf se mere liye koi behtarri hai ...meri behn ko hamesha khush rakhna aur uske sadke mein mujhe bhi khushiyan deina...and then be happy for ur sister...
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^ I can tell you what Google is.
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Can someone translate?
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^big sister is jealous cause small sister is getting married first!
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Yep, trolling is very likely.
OP was 'shocked' on someone not getting married at 30. That was so not nice.
Mohterma striptease aap 40 roz subha uth ker bila-naagha aadhay badaam ko pees ker choti sister ko khilaiye, aur phir us k susraal jaa ker bhangra daaliye. Inshalah afaaqa hoga aur shadi ruk jaegi.
LOL!