Re: Who's the Bride???
seriously though, why is it that anytime someone gets a conversation going, the thread gets shut down? this happened in the previous bridal pics thread too. talking online is a very organic experience- conversations flow as they will- people open topics, we discuss them, other topics just fall by the wayside etc.. you cannot control what people discuss to that extreme an extent. thats ridiculous! no one is swearing or flaming or freaking out- we're all just asserting ourselves and having normal conversations.
why would you request the "bridezillas" thread get shut down, sara? lady, it was a normal, healthy discussion that was going on in there before ONE person, i.e. strawberriesncreme got upset, and then people responded, and it was done, and we could have gone back to talking about things again. once a thread is open, it should not be locked unless its getting out of hand, and that one definitely wasn't. i dont think threads necessarily belong to one person- the minute more people post in them, they belong to the community then. so one person should not have the say in getting something shut down, even if they did start it. its frustrating and unfair to other posters.
this thread is getting a lot more hectic than that other one did- is this next to be shut down? i mean, if conversations keep getting squashed, then this board really is no fun to be at... people should be allowed to express their opinions - and it seems to be that way about 95% of the time here, cos isnt that the whole point of having a messageboard in the first place? sure i was ticked off at what strawberriesncreme said, but there is no way i'd let one person get in the way of my conversation- you address the person, then you move on.
and if its so easy to lock a thread, then i'd like to vote for the mehendi designs thread to be locked because it offends me. thats just silly, aint it? :p