But to answer the question, Y is in the wrong. Things like purses are considered private…you don’t touch someone’s purse without getting their permission. Even with my mom and sister I don’t do that…I ask them first. And if you consider the other person a friend or someone you trust, then take their word if they tell you they don’t have what you want. And even if they do have it, it’s theirs to begin with, and they have the right not to share it with you. I think “Y” is going all apechit on everyone because deep down (though she may not admit it) she knows she’s wrong and it’s easier to protect her ego by screaming at X and her husband as opposed to thinking that she might be wrong. Who knows? Maybe she was PMS’ing or was stressed out over other issues. Made a fool out of herself and husband though.
you are totally wrong! both are wives of two bros!
Thanks for asking this question. No X wasn’t being stupid or immature, infact, any problems, minor or major, she always used to talk directly to Y, but Y, on the other hand everytime used to complain for stupid things to X’s husband, that is why, this time X had to do it and complain to Y’s husband, because Y’s husband always used to think that my wife is always right and X is always wrong (just because X never discussed issues with Y’s husband and he never came to know ke unki wife kiya gull khilati hain)!!
you are totally wrong! both are wives of two bros!
Thanks for asking this question. No X wasn't being stupid or immature, infact, any problems, minor or major, she always used to talk directly to Y, but Y, on the other hand everytime used to complain for stupid things to X's husband, that is why, this time X had to do it and complain to Y's husband, because Y's husband always used to think that my wife is always right and X is always wrong (just because X never discussed issues with Y's husband and he never came to know ke unki wife kiya gull khilati hain)!!
even then I don't agree with any one who is NOT blood related rishta to Y or her husband needs to go over to Y's husband and talk BEFORE talking to Y. I would have to say that this is prob what caused Y's reaction more than anything else.
But dont you think how would it have hurt X several times in past, when Y used to complain for every single thing to X's husband?? Everyone has a limit to tolerate!
please read post no 23 on the same page, reply to Hulahoop Queen
I'm sorry but that's not reason enough to me. Just because Y acts immature and tells X's husband doesn't mean X should be immature and tell Y's husband.
CDG, you’re right. Seems that the two women have a habit of going to each other’s husbands and complaining about the other. It’s just drama and who needs this in their lives? They need to maintain a distance from each other…as much as possible. It’s not healthy for the kids to see this either…they pick up behaviors from their parents.
I still think it would be embarrassing/annoying for a guy to hear from another woman about his wife’s lack of manners.
And Queen…your reasoning that poor X was hurt so many times because Y would rush to complain to X’s husband…and that it somehow justifies X doing the same to Y doesn’t carry much weight. Two wrongs don’t make a right. Even if it’s a double marriage where both women are married to brothers…such behavior can destroy relations within the family.
The way you’re getting so into this story really truly makes me wonder whether or not you’re either X or Y in this bakwaas sharamnaak drama. If you’re connected to both these women in any way, I’d suggest not getting involved. Again, seriously Queen? Like seriously? Paa Jee’s masturbating thread just might have had more substance.
you are right but X told me that I several times stopped her to do this and come direct to her but Y never listened to her.. so X says, thats why I had to do this to make her feel how it feels when you one does such things. Though I said her you should have spoken to her directly but she said, maybe Y needs this, this time
LOL, no I am none of these.. because was confused, who is right and who isn’t, brought the issue on forum!
