Obviously, Y is in the wrong here, she started it all. It's extremely rude to snatch/check someone's handbag without their permission. X could have spoken to Y directly and avoided the drama that ensued.
It's a shame how Y made her kid return X's gift. That's so petty, involving little kids in your fights.
hmm! You pointed out the same things as did i, No kids should be involved in the fights, secondly, no one has the right to check anyone's bag.. no matter what..
And to answer the question, a purse is private property in my eyes and unless she was given permission, she shouldnt have gone thru her purse. Logon ka commonsense mar kyon jata!! I understand the purse sifter might have been doing it out of apnayat but she was wrong and she should apologize.
I remember a classic joke . Two women were fighting in a train. One was saying keep the window open otherwise I would die because of heat , the other was saying keep it closed otherwise I will die of cold.
They asked a wise looking elderly man as to what to do so that there would be some peace and quite in the train compartment.
The wise guy said , open the window for a while so that one of them dies and then close it so that the other one dies too. Then we will have our peace.
There are two ladies, we name them X & Y. They live under the same roof and have some relation (ofcourse not blood relation). They were sitting in a hospital. X brought her hand bag along while Y forgot to bring it for some reasons. Now Y wanted a few things like tissue paper or etc and one on one she kept on asking for this and X refused because she really didn't have anything Y was asking for. The fifth time, Y didn't ask but snatched X's bag in a funny manner including her 4year old child and started checking the bag.. she looked for every single pocket giving excuse she was finding a coin or something for her child so that he can play as he was teasing her when both of them were in hospital (to visit someone).
Because, people were around, X didn't make any issue about it but didn't like the way her bag was checked. X, when came back home, stopped speaking to Y, thought this way Y will realise her mistake. But two days passed and Y didn't react (although she understood that X has certainly have something in her mind). After two days, because X spoke to Y's husband and told him how his wife has made her feel. He spoke to his wife (Y) and she shouted all at a sudden. She (Y) said, X has created an issue out of it, there was nothing like that, I was just finding something for my child to play, while X says, You should have asked me for anything that you wanted, and even if i say, I dont have it, you should trust me, instead checking my bag. but Y keeps on yelling. also, later she shouted at her 4 year old child that never ask for anything from your aunt, you need anything, just ask your father and he will bring you! also, weeks back X gave some present to the child so on this fight, Y made her child return it back to X and the kid did that too! Y yelled on her child, if you take any single thing from your aunt I will kill you! According to Y, she thinks she is right and X made an issue of it, while X thinks, JUST TRUST ME! If I SAY I DONT HAVE IT (ANYTHING), THEN I DON'T HAVE IT!
now, who is on mistake? X, she created an issue? really? or Y?? She should have not checked X's bag??