Re: whom can I call “jaan” ?
aap ne merii post Theek se nahiiN paRhii…have you? maiN ne saaf saaf kaii baar kahaa k “jab tak bahen nikaah men hai tab tak saali maHram hai…agar mankooHa bahen mar jaaye yaa talaaq ho jaaye to saali naa-maHram ho jaatii hai…”
aapko pataa hai k agar miyaaN biwi meN se koii ek mar jaaye to vo ek dusre ke liye naa-maHram ho jaate haiN kiuN k marne ke ba’d uskaa ‘consent’ baaqii nahiiN rahtaa…isii liye biwii ko qabr meN utaarte waqt husband nahiiN utarta madad ke liye…ONLY mahram get down into the grave to lay the body’