Re: Who'd you choose as a lifepartner, A or B?
A B koi bhi mil jayeh i don't mind :D i am just too much into getting married these days since all my friends are engaged or married already..hehe..mera number kab aayeh ga..
Is it possible to chose both of them? Or is that not an option?
Two rishte came to your house;
A) The funny and social type. Laughs out loud. Dresses well. Smells of the newest cologne on the street. Could very well be your brother's friend, as both like to hang out the same places (cinemas, cafes, malls). All in all an outward person. You feel you know where you have him.
B) The very calm type. Very, very intelligent. Smiles more than he laughs. Really religious. Dresses and looks like a sharif guy. Smells of itr. Not at all the type that could sozialice with your brother, as he'd rather hang out in a masjid. You look up to this guy and really admire him, but at the same time you don't feel you've got to know 'the whole him'. You can't imagine how it would be to be intimate with him.
Both are well educated and earn good money. Both come from a good family. Both have a beard.
Who would you choose and why? Is your pick the opposite of you? Please take time to explain :)
I don't know how to make polls btw :(
Two rishte came to your house;
A) The funny and social type. Laughs out loud. Dresses well. Smells of the newest cologne on the street. Could very well be your brother's friend, as both like to hang out the same places (cinemas, cafes, malls). All in all an outward person. You feel you know where you have him.
B) The very calm type. Very, very intelligent. Smiles more than he laughs. Really religious. Dresses and looks like a sharif guy. Smells of itr. Not at all the type that could sozialice with your brother, as he'd rather hang out in a masjid. You look up to this guy and really admire him, but at the same time you don't feel you've got to know 'the whole him'. You can't imagine how it would be to be intimate with him.
Both are well educated and earn good money. Both come from a good family. Both have a beard.
Who would you choose and why? Is your pick the opposite of you? Please take time to explain :)
I don't know how to make polls btw :(
Wait for C or D HE should be YOUR type ....other things doesn't matter much!
I am really amazed at how some people are giving this negative impression regarding smell of itr. The prophet (saw) loved to use itr and encouraged people to use it. In fact I have found the smell of good itr (from Makkah and Madina...etc.) to be a lot better then perfumes.
I do understand that cheap and low quality itr in Pakistan and India smells bad, but then low quality perfumes (even some expensive ones) also smell very bad and causes head ache to me whenever I come across anyone who has used it, which doesn't mean that I should start generalizing that "smell of perfume" is bad, and I should avoid anyone using it.
i totally agree.there r some high quality itr sold in KSA in the most amazing packaging n sold any where from 100-4000 riyals that not everyone can afford but only rich arabs
To the original question i might try to know each of them better b4 reaching to any conclusion.I certainly don't like A's loud laugh.seems superficial.well it depends on wat kind of married life u lokking for.A rollercoaster ride with full emotionnal drama pick A. A low-profile with not much excitement but peaceful lfe go for B. don't worry abt ur bro.Its u who has to live with the guy.More than all this look how their families r coz at the end u hav to deal more with in-laws than ur husband n ur relation with them certainly affect ur relation with ur spouse esp if they r living close by.
I married to type B (mins the itar smell) and within few months of getting married he became type A. Not calm at all he screams like h$ll now :)
Atleast someone changed her man :)
Re: Who'd you choose as a lifepartner, A or B?
Can i possibly have A & B rolled into 1? haha.
Re: Who'd you choose as a lifepartner, A or B?
Neither.
Find a rich older man who will spoil you rotten.
Works for me.
Re: Who'd you choose as a lifepartner, A or B?
I'd go for B as long as there are a few changes like going to the Masjid., no beard, no itr. This is just my opinion and choice so please life 1 anties do not have a go at me for saying this.
Thanks in advance :)
The one whose words and actions show relatively more respect for humanity & more sincerity towards one's ultimate Lord specially if you are able to observe him while apparently no one else is watching his activities. In short, the one with better character.
Agree.
Re: Who'd you choose as a lifepartner, A or B?
Congrats on choosing.
Two rishte came to your house;
A) The funny and social type. Laughs out loud. Dresses well. Smells of the newest cologne on the street. Could very well be your brother's friend, as both like to hang out the same places (cinemas, cafes, malls). All in all an outward person. You feel you know where you have him.
B) The very calm type. Very, very intelligent. Smiles more than he laughs. Really religious. Dresses and looks like a sharif guy. Smells of itr. Not at all the type that could sozialice with your brother, as he'd rather hang out in a masjid. You look up to this guy and really admire him, but at the same time you don't feel you've got to know 'the whole him'. You can't imagine how it would be to be intimate with him.
Both are well educated and earn good money. Both come from a good family. Both have a beard.
Who would you choose and why? Is your pick the opposite of you? Please take time to explain :)
I don't know how to make polls btw :(
Marry someone who you are comfortable with and has somewhat similar lifestyle as yours unless you are madly in love with the person whose personality is completely opposite from yours.
For the ones who care:
I've chosen B) :)
Oh didn't read the entire thread earlier. Congrats!!!
Re: Who'd you choose as a lifepartner, A or B?
yeah congrat n plz share how its going?