Peace mama ki dua
These options say more about the person who wrote them than about the people they represent. I knew that you would choose A, because the style of his good traits were listed first and his bad traits were written with lesser impact. The person B had good traits that were not focussed on his description and rather his description focussed on his bad traits.
To write never had a gf compared with has had a gf in the past, shows that you don’t mind it. If you did mind it, then you would have written for B - one woman man, and for A likes his women, for example.
To say “you find his voice very annoying” sets the mood that the readers of this description need to make about the person.
Governs what you wear vs wouldn’t govern what you wear could have been written as contributes to your overall look trying to make you feel comfortable, safe and elegant vs doesn’t care about what you wear. So the description was a give away about who you would choose.
This thread has actually told everyone what you like in men and what you would tolerate and what you would not tolerate.
On a broader issue everything is about perception. I am pro-marriage and always encourage single adults to be married. Look for positive slants to all traits and ask yourself why they might be doing something rather than simply they are doing so and so and I don’t want that. The same action can be vastly different on perceptions.
For example, the person who drinks is either a slave to societal norms or a slave to his desire, he may have good traits, but drinking is a trait that contradicts this overall good character. Good character is about controlling ones own desire for the benefit of others and for sure drinkers do drink for their own pleasures. At what stage will a person prepare to forsake the chance of their other half derailing after 5-6 years of marriage? That is why perhaps these days more educated, more attractive women find it hard to get married.
Be prepared to compromise towards ‘good, ethical traits’ rather than selfish material, glitzy traits’ as someone said earlier they wane in time and so will our own.