Who would you marry?

Lifestyle Relationships
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We have plenty of threads on this topic but i’m just curious to know

Girls who would you marry?

A 6ft tall guy, very good looking, occassionally drinks, doesn’t offer namaz but fasts, kind to people, treats others well, has had a gf in the past, pretty well off,same age as you, can’t speak urdu, open minded, wouldn’t govern what you wear,polite

OR

A guy who is average looking, offers his prayers ( 5 times a day), a few years older than you, still in education, very polite, humble, never has had a gf, going to start working in a few months time, you find his voice annoying, understands and speaks urdu, he governs what you wear

c:

C:

Chubby, short, very religious, wouldn’t let his wife wear English clothes, she has to wear an abaya when she goes outside, polite, kind, speaks urdu, sports a 2ft long beard, decent job, caring, would let his wife work

There you go :stuck_out_tongue:
Please choose one and give reasons

Thanks :phati:

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Re: Who would you marry?

2nd wala :@:

and yess..too many similar threadsssssssss

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Reasons

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polite/humble/namaaz…
polite and humble would mean has a good character…and namaaz is something good too…

average looks are lovely too…

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the one with whom i click

and define good looking please…coz someone might seem “goodlooking” to you but not to me

drinking is haram, so that’s definitely a huge issue… i have difficulty respecting Muslims who drink…

and 5 times namazi is amazing, but doesn’t Guarantee he’s a great guy

voice is important hmmmm

past gf…not sure how big of an issue this is…there’s lot of context that needs to be examined

how rich he is is not a factor at all

and yeah… language is not an issue, as long as there is at least one language that we can both speak :smiley: nai toh, thora masla ho jaiga, but i might still consider… :smiley:

and yeah… banday ko kuch nai toh kamazkam Juma ki he namaz parhni chahye… guys who do not even offer Friday prayers, its a huge turn off…

just saw the controlling what you wear part… i don’t mind listening to him about what i wear… what’s wrong with him telling me what to wear… as long as he doesn’t tell me to dress immodestly… :S

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second one …

looks fade over age ..character remains till the end ..even in the grave and hereafter

:slight_smile:

but on the other hand you could always change someone but then again for me piety would be important.

i admit i am not very regular with prayers. as in fajr often gets qaza but i keep trying. that is one thing that could be inculcated with time but the rest is something that is hard to give up … drinking, partying … etc

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Neither.

No to A coz he wouldn’t be a good role model for my children.

No to B coz he thinks he owns his women.

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Some interesting answers here. BBQand others good thinking.

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are these the only choices? cuz i prefer neither

can’t stand someone who drinks dont particulary care abt anything else but drinking is like NOOOOO WAYYYY (choice A)

and i cant stand someone who is narrow minded either (choice B)

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No to both…coz mine is a mix of the above 2 :bummer:

I can’t be with a saint..coz I am not a saint, it would drive me mad if he is such a goody goody two shoes.

He has a few bad habits which I know he will change..

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lol yes these are the only choices :stuck_out_tongue:

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MKD :emmy: u edited it after i posted:naraz:

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SOWIEE I was trying to make it harder for people :frowning:

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I wouldnt be too keen on either one of them BUT if I had NO other option…I might choose A

Reasons:

Habits are easier to break than personality flaws

He can stop drinking and become namazi

I wouldnt list namaz as a criteria for marriage because ppl pray and still do disgusting things…they think it evens out or something

He cannot stop thinking that women are his property

I also have a past, who am I to judge anyone else according to theirs? I am more concerned about their present and future

Speaking or not speaking Urdu is not a big deal…doesnt affect his character or personality

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1st one…i need a tall guy, us k baaki sab gunnah maaf :snooty:

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I change..i will stay single :@:

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i personally dont see myself being with any of these cases cause i dont like drinkers and i dont like people who control want to control me.

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just b/c he governs what you wear??

just curious
what if wife dress bad, does he have a right to say anything??

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When I wrote this post, MKD’s original post said something like “You have to do everything he says” … so my comment makes sense that way… MKD’s post was edited afterwards.

If its just about clothing, then I think I can live with that, I’m not so intolerant. But if he controls who I meet, where I go, whether I can do a job or not etc etc, then I refuse to live with him… if he really knows his religion, he should know exactly how to be a gentleman.

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well for time being A is attractive but he drinks sooo a big NNOO… lol

and B is guddd cause at least he offers namaz and lil bit religious but y wuld he govern me no no no no…

well ya B is gud… cause life is not a joke … its a reality need to be matureee lol

but agar aisa real life main hoa na to i think i wlll like to be SINGLEE