A is a total no no!!. It goes against my every principle in life, and i do not want to spend my life in the hope that he might change his ways, and then risk my kids having a drunkard, benamaaz, for a father. His looks and ‘open mindedness’ are pretty insigficant, compared to his ‘issues’ here.
I would choose B, mainly because being humble are not known to be imposing or governing in that sort of way, they are ususal open to compromise.
…and possibly C, if he can compromise on the long beard/clothing issues. I have no problems with abayas, but imposing is the issue here.