^good for you. THEY chose to do this. One of the son’s stayed in the family home they could have stayed 100% with 1 son and daughter in law at home but they chose to spend time with ALL their sons. That way they got to be part of all their children’s lives and spend time with all their grandchildren. While also never being a total burden on 1 family.
Living in a different country from their home, I’m unbelievably grateful that they did this, otherwise I would have only seen them a few brief times before they passed away and would have barely known them.
If all you can do is compare this to some stupid bollywood movie then i feel sorry for you.