who should be your final authority ?

Re: who should be your final authority ?

After marriage a woman leaves her fathers family and becomes a member of her husbands family. He is now responsible for her, he is the leader of the household. That doesn’t mean her own family are cut off. If her husband is telling her to do something against her family’s rights then she shouldn’t listen to him. Parents will always be important. Allah has given them rights over their children but at the same time when those children grow up and marry they also have rights to their spouse. Allah knows best.