Who pays?

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^ yup..money shudnt matter in ur relationship
and it shudnt b something married couples think of b4 doing anything that involves money..both shud b fair and not make it a huge matter

and 4 the honeymoon...the guy shud payy
its just sweeter

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What is wrong with a honeymoon in murree?

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...surprisingly, mixed answers.

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Set expectations early; split the cost.

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You pakisatni wives are so spoiled! All you do is take take take.
May allah forgive you your greed and may karma spare you as well.
Ameen sum ameen.

PS: Muzna, why aren’t there more women like you in this world? Why?!

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if he’s poor then i’ll pay the whole sum :bummer:

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A man is supposed to turn around and run because the bride-to-be is demanding an expensive ring, which shows she's materialistic.

When and how does a woman get to learn that he's being miserly and would be a miser later on? When should she stop, turn, and run away?

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You can't answer that unless you know YOURSELF what's the cost and worth of things in today's society. So, first step would be to educate yourself in the financial ways of the world. Then and only then you are in a position to determine if the hubby/fiance' is being prodigal or stingy.

Know your aa'tay da'al ka bhao, boys and girls.

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but but but but its pink and diamonds, its shoo pretty.. :teary1:

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why can,t u buy it on ur own:hoonh: …why do we guys have to pay for useless things on girls list and in return we don,t get some quality stuff from u .:snooty: …

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^No, they just take, take, and take, they spend our money and control our lives.

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Guys; do not fight with your wives Otherwise you will get no piece at night. When you are married, this is your life and you said yes to it – three times. :o

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coz my fiance’s gonna give it to me :blush:

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^ur not going to start with the fiance thing too, r u :hoonh:

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Start what?

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nevermind…:hoonh:

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Lol i'm sorry Ill stop :p

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Sadiyah,
The comment is based on some previous discussions where girls are staunch on having a ring worth a certain amount and if the guy is unwilling to spend that kind of money on just a ring, they refuse to be married to him.

I don’t think a man, his commitment or his love should be judged by the amount he spends on you.

If you want to find out whether he is stingy, then see how he lives. Spend some time investigating his family and their lifestyle.

Just because he doesn’t want to blow $10K on a ring, doesn’t mean he’s miserly. It may mean that he’s wise and would rather put that money into downpaying the house…

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Just pray you don end up wit the hubby who gets ketcup packets from McDonalds and uses it to refill the Heinz bottle.. :bizz:

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poor guy kitna zulm karni ve tu odai uttai:snooty:… thora taras te hath hola rakhya kar kuriye.:stuck_out_tongue: …