Which would you prefer ??

[Aish]

Re: Which would you prefer ??

@Muslim_Queen

CM if it is about the first approach then if personally somebody came and started flirting with me I would slap him to the North Pole.

By the respectful approach I mean, the other person should be nice. They should find out about the person they are approaching. Flirting should come way later if they plan to have a relationship such as marriage or what have you.

If somebody comes and starts flirting right off the bat, how does that show that he/she cares or is interested in a genuine manner? And why can’t they tell you they are interested without flirting about it?

Religiously, the guy should be a bit distant yet nice, and should get the families involved. And the like, you know what I mean.

As for generally, in other words if I wasnt a Muslim, or how I feel about my friends who date and such. I would say the guys/girls should get to know each other. before bringing the whole flirting aspect into it.

(ps long time no see how are you)

no. religiously, u shouldnt be talking to the guy in the first place