1- A woman is having coffee with another man in coffee house, and you know her husband does not approve of it and would like to know. Wud you tell the husband?
2- College girl lets say muslim is having an affair with a hindu boy and you know her parents do not approve of it, qwould you tell the parents?
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Neither.
It's none of my business, I wouldn't try to make it either.. especially when it means getting involved with desis and their inborn talent for drama.
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I don't think that I would tell on her. But certainly encourage her to talk to the person she is betraying.
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1- No though depending on a relationship with twoman one might take it up with her.
2- depends, i would probably talk to the girl in question.
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hmmmmm..... i guess I will tell about No.2 as thats going to be a complete waste for both gal n boy, at the end.
1- A woman is having coffee with another man in coffee house, and you know her husband does not approve of it and would like to know. Wud you tell the husband?
2- College girl lets say muslim is having an affair with a hindu boy and you know her parents do not approve of it, qwould you tell the parents?
None, its not my bussiness to tell on others.
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I'd minpulate her by asking her to buy me a PS3 system 80 gig with fifa 10 ahhhh pure heaven!
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**NO **to both !!!
None of my business. There is many more morally wrong things going on in society I can not go about solving and poking my nose into each and every issue!!
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None of my business unless that college girl is my cousin or sister god forbid.
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If the girl or woman are completely strangers to you, then of course its no one's business.
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^True that.
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GOD. 
I pray for them
Neither. It's none of my business, I wouldn't try to make it either.. especially when it means getting involved with desis and their inborn talent for drama.
Hit the nail on the head :)
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If the girl in question was my Sister, cousin, niece or aunt than I would have a word with her, (not the Husband or the family) and get her to put things right..
If the gilr in questiion was just a school/college friend or just someone I knew.. I would keep schtum, it's none of my business...
If the girl was my cousin and making out with another man in a coffee shop and than later I had proof that she was cheating on her husband yes I would tell somebody
I wouldn't interfere whether a guy was going out with a hindu girl or a girl was going out with a hindu guy. In this case, it's not my business even if it was my cousin. She's ruining her own life not somebody else's
Thanks though. Your questions are very thought provoking.
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In reality this will happen.
A
OMG I saw X with Z in the coffe house!
REALLY
yes, and her husband told her not to meet Z.
I know!
It’s awfull! I think they are having an affair.
isn’t it obvious?
B
Oh do you know B daughter of X is going out with this guy in college.
REALLY
yes, and that is not the worst part.
oh tell me more.
The guy is non-muslim.
OMG, I am shocked!
She is bad influence for our kids.
I know
I told A not to talk with B in college.
Yeah I will also tell C to stay away from them.
And before you know the whole little desi community will know about situation A & B. The point is, it’s easy to talk about telling or not telling about these scenarios. In real situation people may not react the way they say they would do. They might say that they will not interefer with them, but they will talk about it with someone else. Minding our own damn business is the hardest thing to do for us.
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in both situations they are no ones business
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No one’s business !
Coffee’s are overrated when it comes to desi affairs. (not that i have experience 
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I think having a chit chat coffee does not mean you are having an affair. It only means that you are having a cup of coffee! "rollin ma eye:
About the Hindu affair - It would really be none of my business, cause I am not gonna be the one PROVIDING her the “love” “security” “family” “pay her bills” - yadda yadda yadda - so it’s none of ma business. It would be the Hindu guy who wants to be a good companion and take responsibilities. So I say LET THEM LIVE 
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lol none of my business!
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i personally wld go n talk to both of them...the first women id xcuse n pull aside say today i have seen u tom or even the next moment anyone else cn see u if u really feel u doing wat is ryte take a proper step n continue but dunt ruin the reputation of ur family (husband+kids) and ur parents family...wat u do has consequences!
n dont worry i wont tell anyone but r u sure if someone else u knw sees u wont tell anyone either?
second senerio with the college gurl id talk to her also n tell her the same thing abt her family and the consequences past n their reputation..id suggest her to get connected wid her faith n see wat it says abt it if shes serious abt the guy & tell tht her parents xpects more frm her they r spending so muchmoney on ur education n given u freedom not so tht u pull such stunts..refer to ur Islam n get answers as to at ur religon has to say abt this cuzin the end itsonly ur God ht wld judge u..these r wordly relationship n will last few yrs n will b left behind by everyman!