1) If the girl was my sis,close friend or cousin than i would have just had a talk with her. But if it was a completely stranger or someone im not close to, well than its none of my business what the girl does or dosent do.
2) If it was stranger than is none of my business and if it was someone im close to, than its still none of my business. Its her life, she is the one who has to live with whateva choice she makes. Who am i to tell her what to do or dont do?
it's none of my business in either case... so i wouldn't say anything..
funny thing is that scenario b happened to me with a family friend.. she was secretly dating someone while we were in college i saw them together, but figured its not my place to say anything.. she kinda fell off the wagon.. she started drinking smoking etc.. and before she was not like this.. i heard that she pretty mcuh ran away from home, to be with "the man of her dreams." i don't stay in touch with the family as we've moved.