which one is better

Lifestyle Relationships
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to live with parents or live alone by your self ???

 i don't why but i am thinking to live my own by next year. it's not because of parents , it's just i want some privacy. i don't feel liek i have a privacy. and top of it too many question ask by parents, when u live them.

what do u guys think which one is better???

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living with parents :k:

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^:bummer: then whu i have those wired feelings irem baji ???

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insan mujh se poocho jo parents ke baghayr reh chuki hae :D ask me wat a heaven it is to be living with parents, coz i've seen the life of living alone

its like parents provide the shade in ur life that a tree does in harsh sun

khair i was never the type who fancied the idea of living independently, ive always wanted to live with my parents, lekin i know kuch larkon ke oopar ye bhoot savar ho jata hae

believe me, its only some waQti thing u r going thru

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u think u will have privacy but soon that privacy will turn into loneliness and u will miss ur family members a lot

and also as a child its ur duty towards ur parents to be with them

privacy kuch din k lyay achee lagti hae us ke baad tanHai ban jati hae and u will miss their care and shafQat

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maybe u can work out an aragement while living with ur parents where they will give u a little more independence and allow u to do things as u want, ofcourse u'll have to respect their sentiments too

and maybe u can have ur own room in ur house? that way u will have some mroe independence?

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at least have the experience of living by yourself first - once you've experienced, you'll be better able to determine what is best for you.

Personally, I undergo cycles. I will live away from home for a while, and then I'll want to be back home, and then I'll live at home for even 2 months in the summer, and then I'll be ready to leave again.

I absolutely hating sticking in one spot for some reason. Nomadic lifestyle is great at this age.

But, I dunno - it depends on your family - we've got loads of health issues in the family, so I'm looking forward to going home for a very long time.

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I am living alone right now.. its good.. i guess gives you the confidence to make decisions right or wrong.. but living with parents is fun too.. u knw someone u can be with when u come home tired and chill with them watch tv takecare of them.. so yeah as PCG said.. try them both and find a balance.. make a decision

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Haha, I been living alone since I was 16 and trust me it gets boring real quick. Privacy, independence ka shoq bohot jaldi pura ho jata hai. But having said that, I think that its a great learning experience which everyone should go through.

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irem baji i guess u r right. mugh per bhi bhoot sawar hou gaya hey :smiley: kone si deewar per sar maroon ??? :bummer:

guriya baji :slight_smile:

shakan should i go with this expricence.

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insan u shud see how ur parents feel about this idea of urs? r they happy with it?
if they r not then i think u shud take it out of ur mind, but if they r happy abt it and want u to have the experience then u could but i personally dont like the idea of kids living away from parents, unless there is a real need, like they have to work/study in a different place, warna meri nazar me its not a good idea...agar koi problems haen, like u feel lack of privacy, then try to solve them, but leaving home is not the solution :) meri apni atleast yai soch hae

Uplifting thread
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tabhi to poch rha houn kone se dewaar per sar maroon thakey idea he nikal jay sar mey se :D

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i love my parents irem baji i dont want to live them but sometimes i do need my personal time i guess is ok everything cannot be perfect :)

who wants to come to canada and why
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alone. but with a friend or room mate.. livin alone would be scary cus i hate quiet houses. i dont really want privacy just freedom.. so i can do something n not have to ask/ tell someone everytime.. ie. going to the mall. im not that bad of a kid.

What would be a proffesional way..
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It depends. Living alone can be challenging, there is so much to take care of, finances, bills, budgeting, balancing chequebooks, finding time to cook in a busy schedule, cleaning. Really, there's so many things. I think if you are ready for that, it is a great learnign experience and will really help you prepare for when you do have to move out and become financially independent and support your own family. It's not for everyone though. I mean when I moved out, all I thought about was freedom as well and my own privacy. But there were a million and one issues that cropped up and doing things entirely on my own was tough because I did not have experience from before.

And it depends if you will be getting your own place or living in dorms. Life's easier in dorms, a lot of the stuff is taken care of but with your own place, it's more challenging.

If the only reason you want to move out is to get some privacy though, you should talk to your parents about giving you more space. That shouldn't be your only reason for moving out.

AE kay huay 10 hazar
AE kay huay 10 hazar
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living alones just not living with parents . i mean living with room mate but not parents.

ye na the hamari qismat
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money is not a problem for me . because i do get enough income to live my own. as long as u r talking other stuff like cokking and cleanning then i do those also very often.

you can’t say to your parents that don’t ask to come home by 10 . don’t tell me when to come. i mean you just can’t say that.

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okay so its the restrictions...i guess you are a male..whats yours age?
life teaches the best when you live alone...because shorn of any parental protection decision making and managing yourself is a challenging and learning experiences..

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i am 17 years old. i am a student in college and i am also a teacher at high school :)

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i would suggest you to try it and decide for yourself. not implying that either is good or bad. both have their advantages and drawbacks. you have to find which one suits you better. exploring new things is not a bad idea. you learn to appreciate things which you do not get on the other side. and learn the good and bad. it's a learning experience. try it.