Re: which one is better
question..why is it worse for girls to move out on their own and live independently? I know there are some girls here besides Sarah who don't live with their parents/husbands, so can u guys giv us any words of wisdm so to speak?
When I was younger--in high school--I wanted to live alone SO MUCH> it wasn't the privac, it was just having the freedom. But I've realized that 1) I'm SO NOT ready to take care of things on my own, like cooking adn cleaning, budgeting, etc. Not being able to stay out all hours of the night is a small price to pay for having my mom do almost everything for me. I know it's not exactly right but that's just how i feel. 2) The most important reason of all, ive seen how much my parents have suffered coz of my brother when he moved out at the age of 19. I can't put my parents through the hurt, I just can't let that rest on my conscience. Again, I dont' think it's right, but it's not like I can just say "fk you" to them and run away--that's just not in me.