Second one for me Sehr. Like biggie says, the more money we come across the problems we see.
As for moving to Dog River Saskatchewan, don't do it.
I'd pick the second one as well. Probably my worst habit is that I overthink most issues and look not just at short-term, but also long-term implications. I think about having kids and raising them to be good Muslims who have a connection to their Pakistani roots. Living in a remote location like Dog River or Wyoming would make this more challenging (though not impossible).
And from my perspective, living in as multiculturally diverse community as the one I come from, where majids, friends, grocers are so accessible - it seems difficult to go literally cold turkey to a place that had none of it (and not just a diminished amount).
Question primarily for the girl folk - but guys can respond as well as it relates to their relocation decisions.
How important is the city/location of your potential husband when deciding on a rishta?
If the guy lives in the same country/continent, i.e. USA or Canada, but in a very remote city would you consider the rishta?
As an example - he lives in the middle of Wyoming where the closest desi store is a few hours away; where in total there may be 5 desi families living within a 50 mile radius so no opportunity to socialize with very many other desis, no masjid for at least 2-3 hours from your home and no career prospects for the girl (whose a city girl) - would or should these things matter when considering a rishta.
Guys, from your perspective - do you consider these things when deciding where to settle?
her location is irrelevant. I'm going to quit my job and live off her cash (yes, mr. gay teadybear - this is your cue to start your lectures). so, I'll happily go where she (and her cash) is.
her location is irrelevant. I'm going to quit my job and live off her cash (yes, mr. gay teadybear - this is your cue to start your lectures). so, I'll happily go where she (and her cash) is.
Have you found your sugar mama yet or are you still casting your net hoping to land a moti asaami :@:
Have you found your sugar mama yet or are you still casting your net hoping to land a moti asaami :@:
no luck so far.
I'm starting to get desperate though. might have to accept a sugar daddy instead of a mama. does anyone have daaktar Qiyamat Masood's email address? heard he made a killing from the "End of Days" soap opera that he produced, directed and starred in.
her location is irrelevant. I'm going to quit my job and live off her cash (yes, mr. gay teadybear - this is your cue to start your lectures). so, I'll happily go where she (and her cash) is.
I understand where location can be an issue if you're talking different continents like Pakistan instead of the US. Otherwise, if its just another state or city, what's the big deal. Everything is temporary, people move around, especially these days. It's only a job/school, not a life sentence. Besides, if you end up with an idiot, doesn't matter where you are, it's gonna suck.
Dude seriously, do you honestly have no idea how lame you are? Or is it just an act and you are messing with everyone, and one day you will drop the lame comments, teddys and the gay custom titles and laugh at everyone who thought you were utterly lame?
another perfectly good thread ruined by lame talk. someone should chain cafeites to the cafe section with big huge thick chains and padlocks.
and the keys shoudl be destroyed
