Where is my kuch kuch hota hai guy?

[geminifromkhi]

Re: Where is my kuch kuch hota hai guy?

I live in Karachi, and I do not belong to a liberal family. So forget date, I wont even get to talk to him in private!

[badabing]

Re: Where is my kuch kuch hota hai guy?

@geminifromkhi

I know that but no one is bringing their rishtas to me Someone hook me up. Just kidding.

Get a rishta aunty! Or better still, put a full page ad in you city paper.

[badabing]

Re: Where is my kuch kuch hota hai guy?

@geminifromkhi

I live in Karachi, and I do not belong to a libera family. So forget date, I wont even get to talk to him in private!

I’d hardly call going on a date liberal. Liberal to me is being fine with alcohol use, premarital sex etc. Meh, each to their own!

[geminifromkhi]

Re: Where is my kuch kuch hota hai guy?

@badabing

Get a rishta aunty! Or better still, put a full page ad in you city paper.

Ni I dont believe in these zaroorat for rishta ads.

[badabing]

Re: Where is my kuch kuch hota hai guy?

@geminifromkhi

Ni I dont believe in these zaroorat for rishta ads.

Start to socialize and mingle in the right crowd, I’m sure you’ll find someone.

[geminifromkhi]

Re: Where is my kuch kuch hota hai guy?

@badabing

I’d hardly call going on a date liberal. Liberal to me is being fine with alcohol use, premarital sex etc. Meh, each to their own!

Well you live in the UK, obviously its not liberal for you. I live in Karachi.

[badabing]

Re: Where is my kuch kuch hota hai guy?

@geminifromkhi

Well you live in the UK, obviously its not liberal for you. I live in Karachi.

Very good point.

[AnnaKarenina]

Re: Where is my kuch kuch hota hai guy?

@geminifromkhi

Well the thing is…if the guy comes along with his family to my house, il just get to look at him. Wont get a chance to talk because we are not that liberal.
To all of you saying this isnt bollywood, well kuch kuch hota hai anjali, tum nahi samjho gi;). I mean hasnt it ever happened with you guys that you see someone and there is a spark..or at least you feel like getting to know that person a lot. Well guess what, I never ever wanted to even listen to the names of the rishta guys ever again, I did not like them even one bit.
Not using rishta aunties, using my rishtadars. I live in Pakistan.

I strongly believe in the “spark” factor too. If I don’t feel an instant connection with someone, there’s a good chance I’m not interested in getting to know them and won’t be attracted to them. I’ve felt an initial spark with guys I’ve seriously discussed a future with in the past, not just based on looks but also conversation. You can’t just physically look at a person, you need to be attracted to their personality too and that only comes with talking and getting to know them so don’t just reject based on them coming over and sitting with the family. Try to see if you can talk to them, even if it’s not in person.

[badabing]

Re: Where is my kuch kuch hota hai guy?

@AnnaKarenina

I strongly believe in the “spark” factor too. If I don’t feel an instant connection with someone, there’s a good chance I’m not interested in getting to know them and won’t be attracted to them. I’ve felt an initial spark with guys I’ve seriously discussed a future with in the past, not just based on looks but also conversation. You can’t just physically look at a person, you need to be attracted to their personality too and that only comes with talking and getting to know them so don’t just reject based on them coming over and sitting with the family. Try to see if you can talk to them, even if it’s not in person.

I disagree. Take me for example. There have been times when I have been out with some friends (that think I’m a sharif good boy, well I am, now anyway that is) and they will start chatting up girls in a pub. Initially i’d be quite, just assessing the lay of the land - the girls probably thinking why is this guy awkwardly quiet. Once I decide to turn it out, I have my so called “player” friends telling me “badabing, allow it man, let me have one of them!”. Initial impressions can be deceiving!

[sweefs]

Re: Where is my kuch kuch hota hai guy?

@badabing

I disagree. Take me for example. There have been times when I have been out with some friends (that think I’m a sharif good boy, well I am, now anyway that is) and they will start chatting up girls in a pub. Initially i’d be quite, just assessing the lay of the land - the girls probably thinking why is this guy awkwardly quiet. Once I decide to turn it out, I have my so called “player” friends telling me** “badabing, allow it man, let me have one of them!”.** Initial impressions can be deceiving!

[OYMWA]

Re: Where is my kuch kuch hota hai guy?

@TLK

Kuch kuch hota hai sounds like a medical problem

Yeah..aka Diarrhea.

[AnnaKarenina]

Re: Where is my kuch kuch hota hai guy?

@badabing

I disagree. Take me for example. There have been times when I have been out with some friends (that think I’m a sharif good boy, well I am, now anyway that is) and they will start chatting up girls in a pub. Initially i’d be quite, just assessing the lay of the land - the girls probably thinking why is this guy awkwardly quiet. Once I decide to turn it out, I have my so called “player” friends telling me “badabing, allow it man, let me have one of them!”. Initial impressions can be deceiving!

LOL. People can put on a show and cause first impressions to be deceiving. I form an impression of people after talking for a bit though so it’s not literally the “initial” impression, more like after 5-10 minutes of a conversation.

[TLK]

Re: Where is my kuch kuch hota hai guy?

@OYMWA

Yeah..aka Diarrhea.

With no intentions of grossing out Paheli, diarrhea would be bohut kuch hota hai. Kuch kuch would be the opposite, no?

[OYMWA]

Re: Where is my kuch kuch hota hai guy?

@badabing

I disagree. Take me for example.

No. Thank you!

[ShimmerV]

Re: Where is my kuch kuch hota hai guy?

FAV.MOVIE.EVER!!

I wanted my life to turn out like that as a teenager & in a very indirect twisted way it did. Except the last scene where Salman khan hands over kajol to SRK, that didn’t happen lol

[TLK]

@ShimmerV:10292157

FAV.MOVIE.EVER!!

I wanted my life to turn out like that as a teenager & in a very indirect twisted way it did. Except the last scene where Salman khan hands over kajol to SRK, that didn’t happen lol

Instead, you handed over Salman Khan to SRK?

[ShimmerV]

Re: Where is my kuch kuch hota hai guy?

No that didn’t happen either haha

I shall maintain the mystery to my story buhahaha

@TLK

Instead, you handed over Salman Khan to SRK?

[OYMWA]

Re: Where is my kuch kuch hota hai guy?

@ShimmerV

FAV.MOVIE.EVER!!

I wanted my life to turn out like that as a teenager & in a very indirect twisted way it did. Except the last scene where Salman khan hands over kajol to SRK, that didn’t happen lol

Salman Khan plays dad to Kajol and gives her away?

[taffer87]

Re: Where is my kuch kuch hota hai guy?

Plz ignore anyone who says time is not running out. Be real and pragmatic about it. Seen too many girls go into depression at 27 when they realize they rejected tens of great rishtas for no reason from the age of 21 onwards and what seemed like an endless supply of rishtas has turned into a drought.

Time is definitely running out. 24 is ideal age, 26 is stretching it but maybe doable.

So key is to take proposals seriously. Don’t expect 100%. Don’t compromise on the 2-3 things very important to you but do think about weighing up the rest against pros of any potential match.

Best wishes

@geminifromkhi

So I am a 24 years old girl , going to be 25 soon. I went to prestigious educational institutes of my city, and my job will start soon in sha Allah.
I wont say I am beautiful but well I am not bad ;). I do have some proposals but I don’t like them. And I don’t want to invite the rishta gang over until I like the guy…like whats the point? I don’t want to say yes until there is a guy jisko daikh ker (quoting srk here :)) ‘kuch kuch hota hai’.
Just let me know if I am wrong. A degree alone doesnt impress me, I want the full package. Is my time running out? I really dont want to get stuck with the wrong person.
By full package I don’t mean I want an exceptionally good looking, filthy rich and extremely well educated guy. I just want someone I find attractive, and who is more educated or at least as educated as I am.
Let me know if I am wishing for too much because my rishtadars can’t wait to see me get married.

[Pisiform]

Re: Where is my kuch kuch hota hai guy?

@taffer87

Plz ignore anyone who says time is not running out. Be real and pragmatic about it. Seen too many girls go into depression at 27 when they realize they rejected tens of great rishtas for no reason from the age of 21 onwards and what seemed like an endless supply of rishtas has turned into a drought.

**Time is definitely running out. 24 is ideal age, 26 is stretching it but maybe doable.
**
So key is to take proposals seriously. Don’t expect 100%. Don’t compromise on the 2-3 things very important to you but do think about weighing up the rest against pros of any potential match.

Best wishes

according to you, not everyone. And I don’t think anyone is going into depression at 27. These days, girls are not born with the sole purpose of getting married. Whenever you find Mr. Right, that is the right time. (However I am sure there are plenty of girls who think like that and its sad)