lol yes, but those “sparks” can come in unexpected ways…My fiance and I met each other (not arranged) and we definitely had no sparks (at least from my end) but I got to know him and the sparks…somehow appeared. There’s also been times (only a few because I didn’t do the chai-trolley rishta thing very much) where I definitely thought there was a spark between us and that was in an arranged setting. And you can definitely get to know someone outside of 1-2 meetings at home without being “liberal”.