Where is my kuch kuch hota hai guy?

[AnnaKarenina]

Re: Where is my kuch kuch hota hai guy?

@geminifromkhi

Well the thing is…if the guy comes along with his family to my house, il just get to look at him. Wont get a chance to talk because we are not that liberal.
To all of you saying this isnt bollywood, well kuch kuch hota hai anjali, tum nahi samjho gi;). I mean hasnt it ever happened with you guys that you see someone and there is a spark..or at least you feel like getting to know that person a lot. Well guess what, I never ever wanted to even listen to the names of the rishta guys ever again, I did not like them even one bit.
Not using rishta aunties, using my rishtadars. I live in Pakistan.

I strongly believe in the “spark” factor too. If I don’t feel an instant connection with someone, there’s a good chance I’m not interested in getting to know them and won’t be attracted to them. I’ve felt an initial spark with guys I’ve seriously discussed a future with in the past, not just based on looks but also conversation. You can’t just physically look at a person, you need to be attracted to their personality too and that only comes with talking and getting to know them so don’t just reject based on them coming over and sitting with the family. Try to see if you can talk to them, even if it’s not in person.