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^thts how u perceive ... i didnt mean tht at all.
partying is quite normal ... drinking is a bit out of limits .
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yes there is a drug problem amongst the youths in this country...pakistani indian black and white, do not say MOST pakistani men are like that...
I said i wouldnt marry a man from pakistan because i wouldnt click with them not because they are bad
AND i have made an observation the YOUTH from pakistan get involved in mroe bad stuff then pakistani boys who i know who have grown up here.
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did u find any1 yet ... ?
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inspiron.....that means that your dad and grandfather got involved in more bad stuff than the guys who have grown up in uk?
tell me which bad things that guys from pakistan do which guys from uk dont do?
I think with your ridiculous comments and attitudes you definately wont find anyone......i have a few aquaintances with similar thinking to yours....and surprisingly they're still single....even though they're nearly 30 and now they're DESPERATE to marry anyone they can find...but surprisingly cant find anyone. I guess your thinking has a big part to play on whether you find a guy or not.
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i totally agree with u little princess. U cant blame people from any single domain . Good n bad peeep r everywhere ... U get wht u deserve , come wht may, if u r good u will hav somthg beter in ur future thts wht is a natural phenomena n if u r bad thn thn u will hav somthg worst .
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little princess what i mean is...
guys from pakistan who come to western countries at a young age get involved in more bad stuff than guys who grew up in the uk.
i think someone else in this thread also mentioned that.
also u seem like you have a bit of a chip on your shoulder and are getting VERY worked up and want me to agree with your opinions, your entitled to your opinion and thankyou for your advice but im not going to completely agree with you and i will go by my own observations and life experiences too.
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u hav to listen som1 ... she had more experienced then u trust me ... now u r getting personal ... she isnt .......
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Its really disappointing to see such pedestrian thoughts on part of some people here. From personal experience and I may be wrong but guys who do their undergrads from UK and come as international students from Pakistan, most do get involved in alcohol, womanizing etc. Not all , I know that I didnt , but quite a few, more than half from what i have seen. In contrast, a lot of Pakistanis living in the UK are more strong in terms of their moral obligations as muslims, probably because they have learnt to resist certain temptations as they have lived their entire lives in the UK.
I dont understand why LittlePrincess is bringing in the issue of grandfathers and fathers, they belonged to a different generation when things were very different. Clearly, something which has been said on this forum has hit a nerve for you.
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u didnt get it ... wht she said had a valid point ...
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Mmhmm…ya…but how can you be so sure? Let me guess… you’re Mystic Meg?? Or better, Nostradamus?? 
What’s wrong with clubbing?? They can go together, non?? 
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France ho ya UK …apna tou naam he kafi hai 
u out ther with som big mission hmmmmmmm …
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Just spreading the message of peace, love and rock n roll. insert hippy icon here
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good for us to know ... r u stil in uk or bkk in france with ur family ... ?
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KAT can u keep your socialising to private messages please and not in my thread.
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sorry … please relax … i m with u if u need anywher my help plez let me know … i m friendly to every1 … but might b we differ in our observations / opnionssssssss
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Ya, listen to the inspiring lady and stop creeping me out.
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ya sure u too pleez keep your socialising out of thss threadddd ...she is really angry now ...
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Its really disappointing to see such pedestrian thoughts on part of some people here. From personal experience and I may be wrong but guys who do their undergrads from UK and come as international students from Pakistan, most do get involved in alcohol, womanizing etc. Not all , I know that I didnt , but quite a few, more than half from what i have seen. In contrast, a lot of Pakistanis living in the UK are more strong in terms of their moral obligations as muslims, probably because they have learnt to resist certain temptations as they have lived their entire lives in the UK.
Thankyou! At least someone can defend us! Exactly what Ive seen. . .
Possibly because us, UK GUYS, have seen it all and kind of been open to it and let it be. Whereas in Pakistan such things are not seen or done OPENLY so they want to come here and see and TRY it out for themselves. . .
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little princess what i mean is...
guys from pakistan who come to western countries at a young age get involved in more bad stuff than guys who grew up in the uk.
i think someone else in this thread also mentioned that.
also u seem like you have a bit of a chip on your shoulder and are getting VERY worked up and want me to agree with your opinions, your entitled to your opinion and thankyou for your advice but im not going to completely agree with you and i will go by my own observations and life experiences too.
so you are saying you dad got up to bad stuff because he came from pakistan? ive asked you this question 3 times and you're not answering it. In other words you're saying your dad, your grandad and all your uncles etc...are all bad? in that case why dont you get married to an english man....according to your theory he will be much better than a pakistani,,.....because his past ancestors and generations have grown up in uk...
its making me laugh what you're saying thats why im asking you...
i think a gora would be the best option for you....because he wont have any pakistani blood in him and is going to get up to less bad stuff according to you......i cant stop laughing :D
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hi guys hope u all r fine. well i read the conversation and i think little princess point is valid.with all due respect INSPIRON....i think u r inspired by UK guys alot.if u like them thats fair enough...thats your own choice. but let me clear one thing to u Pakistani guys are not that bad as u r trying to potrait them.i just wana ask u one question have u ever been to pakistan? if yes then which city/place? Im a pakistani and live in uk i came from pakistan 2 years before. i have never been to clubing at all.i m happily married here and enjoying my life. i dont feel like doing bad stuff at all the reason is because i m from pakistan and i belong to that culture where all these things are bad....so its in my teaching to avoid all these bad things/activities.i thing education plays a vital role ....my suggestion to u is that if u want to get married then please get married to someone who is educated.