Re: where have all the men gone?
I think this is going to be a sticking point for you. For the first 8 years of our marriage I earned 3-4 times what my wife made, but I supported her and put her through med school. Now she’s a physician and makes twice what I make. Does that make me feel less of a man? Did the prophet Mohammed feel less of a man when he married hazrat Khadija who was a very successfuly and even his ‘boss’? It doesn’t bother me, money is just money, an equal partnership involves many more factors.
YOu sound like a level headed girl. I’m sure someone nice will come along.