where have all the men gone?

[inspiron]

@Hassan007

First of all, i pray that your wish insha’allah come true. Your demands are valid inspiron and i don’t think you have to “lower” your expectation. You are well educated individual who is looking for some-one who is in same par as you. Looking for good rishta can be very challenging and especially for girls here in the west. And trust me, i know this because i am a doctor as well here in Canada and get rishtays all the time. Many of my male counterparts who actually studied with me in England when doing my undergrad are now well set in their careers (and are doctors as well) . And they (my buddies) are looking for same criteria as you mentioned. Therefore, never stop trying to look for somebody special.

Also, remember, Allah has created pair for everybody.

Thankyou so much for your post, i actually feel a sense of releif that there are other people out there who think a bit like me and understand.

It is tough and worrying and also makes me feel very insecure sometimes!

Maybe i need to lower my standards a little in order to get married, i dont know.

sigh

Manisha i totally agree with you haha!!

I think i am ready to settle down ashoka its not my parents who are forcing me at all, i really am ready to settle ive had my fun at uni now its time to look forward and grow up a little.

The lack of rishtay through the my parents and the lack of meeting a man who is good for me in my life is making be worried/low in confidence.