Re: Where does one stay if your husband is out of town?
Bibi! Pehle gaur c parh lia kare. I was not talking about op’s situation. If you had bothered to read my reply properly, it was directed towards us1415 hence his post was quoted.
my views on op’s situation was also shared but only if you had bothered to read before making all kinds of assumtions.
wohooo! I hope my posts are visible to everyone because what you are making out of them was definately not said. I actually said in op’s situation the mil SHOULD NOT ask the dil to stay at her inlaws keeping the circumstances in mind. Also, i said the same to u that u did right by making sure of your wife’s comfort. HOWEVER yes its super odd for any one with respectful and fine treating parents to say to their wife that you can visit them once a week that too if you want to. Like what the hell? Marriage to u people is all about wife and husband only? What happened to the families on both ends? Do they brought u up only so that you grow up and only care about your feelings? Your emotions?
& and NO boys don’t live at their inlaws so unless u were a ghar jamai, i wouldnt recommend you that either. However visiting them would be a must for you as it should be for your wife.
clear my confusion, u want the wife to visit the inlaws mandatory? Isnt it better that there are no restrictions and she may visit them khushi se? I am sure most inlaws are fine with that, i know we would be atleast. Why make it Sound like inlaws cant survive without bahu ranis chand da face
