Re: Where does one stay if your husband is out of town?
I think people are confusing two things here: the OP’s situation and @us1415’s comment, which was not about the OP but rather about his situation with his wife. I believe your comments were a reply to the latter and that is what people are replying to (with some confusion). I think people are mistakenly thinking that your reply about balance and the like was directed at the OP’s post.
Anyhow, there is hardly a need to call anyone stupid. People have differing opinions and just because they differ from yours, it doesn’t make them stupid or invalid.