Re: Where did I go wrong ?
i admire that u dared to think outside of wat other people similar to ur community think.It took me years to make my mom n dad realise that theres noway to avoidinteraction between gurls n guys anymore what u cn do is understand n trus tht wat u have taught us is wid us.what a teenager needs most is TRUST & ASSURANCE once he/she knws he is trusted so much hed think 1million times bfr breaking it or otherwise hell adopt :wat the hell attitude" they mite as well dunt trust me wats the harm in trying.It to early dont panic please dunt second judge ur method cuz u on the right path u maynot see the result now but 3-4 yrs down the line those parents will see the result of their cacoon method n how their children rebel n make of themselves.Trust ur kids tell them they r trusted how many times u cn say it! its important for them to know tht u think tht they r old n controlled enough to be trusted to make their own decision partially n dunt hav to be nagged.spy'd or punished continuously...contribute to build who they are!
Hope it works out..u on the right track