Re: Where did I go wrong ?
Mirch Unkil =(
sorry to hear that you let girls come over !
I would be happy to hear that you let girls come over ONLY if you would think it’s okay for your daughter (if you have one) to go over to one of her male friends home for homework.
Now I know that you sneak in on your kid, but the “other” kids parents might actually encourage their son and give them a “push” to form a “more than friends” relationship with “your” daughter?
So that’s why I would be a bit wary of this facilitation.
besides boys will be boys and would like to experiment.
Having said all of this, I am not preaching that you are doing something wrong, but just telling you that the situation itself is “iffy”.
A guy would soon be interested to use his freedom of bringing someone over for homework, and really learn “The Homework” together 
wat’s your opinion on letting daughters go over to their guy friends home? How comfortable would you be?