Where did I go wrong ?

@ GJ, As Mirch noted in his original post, some of the uncles in the community have labeled his son as a bad influence and forbid their children from associating with him, for no other apparent reason than that he has some social interaction with female classmates.

Mirch Bhai is a well-respected member of our guppan community who has shown no penchant for the bollywood drama type of thread, :) so I have no problem taking him at his word, and nowhere in his post did I sense that he's attacking others or their children.