He is a typical mama’s boy. What mama said is always right. His parents’ approach is to be always there for the kids and umm somewhat interfere in their lives. They tell us all the time what to do. They tell their kids all the time what to do and how to deal with things.
Lol. Love how that has randomly been brought into the thread when it has nothing to do with anything here.
Randomly brought huh? Learn to read before you write your response. It will help you tremendously.
Glad to know you talked things out with your husband Spiral! Hope things stay positive for you!
i havent read everything.... but he's not really badmouthing ur parents...
he's just saying that you could have helped out too... rather than just let ur mum do everything (like im assuming ur Bro and SIL do).
u guys are prob at different extremes.... he'll do anything and everything for his parents... whereas ur parents do everything and anything for their kids..
pregnancy can get u all emotional... and when the bubs pops.. u end up having a few more arguments... btit of an emotional roller coaster (been there done that)
maybe the hubz just feels bad ur parents have to do everythig for u guys...?
SPIRAL- He should not be saying the things he is saying to you esp “Tum maar to nahi jati” I think you should have a calm talk with him and tell him that please do not speak like this about your parents again and don’t compare them with yours , tell him that it hurts you. He needs to control his words he use with you esp about your parents. I believe that with the passage of time things will get better Insha Allah , it’s a phase only (I hope so) and right now just think and concentrate on your baby’s and your health . My best wishes
