My 6 year old loves to talk. (My dad tells me that she got that from me ). Anyway, what I am concerned about it that she talks so much that sometimes she says things she shouldn’t. I know she’s a kid and will learn and all that but she she’s too creative and talks up a storm of vague imaginary crazy stuff.
She’s been talking to her cousin over the phone for 1 hour and only she’s talking , like non stop. Her cousin is totally enjoying all of her creative tales. Strange dreams, stories, even her thoughts on Martin Luther King, Jr.
My daughter used to do that at one point of time , she would talk on the phone and all the cousins and aunties enjoyed it . Then she stopped and became shy and would not like to talk to someone she would have not met and spent time knowing them.
See the thing is that I totally can relate to excessive talking (!!) but I need to control her urges somehow so she doesn't go overboard. I am trying.
You need to control the exaggeration and false stories if she spins any. She is not a fiction writer so we have to control that at this stage. Rest is fine.
They are mostly imaginative fantasy tales such as: i was taking a walk when I came accross a fairy who took me to a giant slide and I had to choose which way to go because at the end of one path was a witch .
She’s not a fiction writer but a story teller it seems.
she’s too cute, mA. my sister was just as chatty but grew out of it as she got older. now she’s mature, responsible and super duper friendly with everyone.
I think that alot of these things are part of being a kid. Talkative, hyper, all of that.. that's synonymous with being a child.. just like maturity and responsible attitude are expected from an adult. I know my mom didn't like that my brother and I were such quiet kids.. but she thoroughly enjoyed my sister's antics and patar patar karna all the time. Most likely she will grow out of it.. if she doesn't then she won't have any trouble making friends and will always be the life of the party :D
kids do that How cute is your daughter mashallah my daughter used to talk a lot to her friend and me but now she has slown down a bit.And her imaginery firends are with her all the time.
X2 It can go longer than you thought but eventually they calm down after some time. And you have to control them a lot because Zafeerah has embarrased me a lot due to talking.::o
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To the point.
Aap ki buchchi bohat hi ziada zaheen aur creative hai.
Wohi buchchay bohat hi boltay hain jo bohat ziada creative aor zaheen hotay hain.
Wo sawalat bhi bohat poochtay hain.
Unko chup karanay ka bahtareen zariaa yay hai kay aap us say aisay sawal jo inkay zahan aur soch say zara oper aur creative hon wo kia karain…Is tarha karnay say usko aik to mauqa milay ga mazeed apni creativeness ko barhanay ka aur khamosh bhi rah sakay gi.
Is kay ilawa aap us ko uski age say agay age ki cheezain sikhain aur par’hain wo jald pick karay gi aur sub samjhay gi.
Usko aap hamaysha uski age say ziada class walay 6 age hai uski to aap ussay 7 8 aur 9 age walay games jo educational bhi hon khailnain day.
Is tarha aap apni bucchi ko extra genius bana sakti hain. Yani uski zahanat ko nikhaar sakti hain.
Ussay ziada say ziada par’hain ya parhanay ko dain. Agar wo parhna janti hai to ussay acchi achchi kahanion ki book jo creative qism ki hon aur interesting bhi dia karain.
Uska interest bhi daikhain wo kis main ziada leti hai us ki batain karain aur uskay baray main sikhaain.
Baqia mazeed aur add karoon gi baad main abhi kay liaay itna kafi hai.
Sorry main nain sirf aap ki post par’hi aur kisi ki naheen is liaay agar kisi ki baat repeat huwi ho to maazrat.
Aap sochain gay mujhay itna kaisay maloom huwa to mera aik bhai jo mujh say kafi chota tha wo aisa hi tha I trained him and taught him.
It means she got some problem thats why she changed.
Don’t wish to. You got time to polish her more.
You have to thank Allah you got a genius girl.
Polish her (not from shoe polish) but from your knowledge, books, cds, games plays, questions. And raise a great daughter to make you proud by gaining great achivement in life. Insha Allah.
Jo utlti seedhi in angraizon wali khabti type ki batain ya kahanion main hon ussay kahain yay sahi naheen hai aur yay ghalat hai hai iski jagah kuch aur achchi baatain add karwain.
Islami kahaniaan ussay sunain. Uski batain add karwain is tarha wo seekhay gi bh aur Islami knowledge bhi ho gi aur ussay maza bhi aay ga.
). Anyway, what I am concerned about it that she talks so much that sometimes she says things she shouldn’t. I know she’s a kid and will learn and all that but she she’s too creative and talks up a storm of vague imaginary crazy stuff.
, like non stop. Her cousin is totally enjoying all of her creative tales. Strange dreams, stories, even her thoughts on Martin Luther King, Jr.
Then she stopped and became shy and would not like to talk to someone she would have not met and spent time knowing them.
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