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For those who support/allow/don't mind the "husband Checking Out Other Women.." it would be interesting if they could share few names of their religious ideals/role models who used to practice/encourage/didn't mind this (noble) act.
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Btw, can anyone define what "Checking out" means ? Sounds like acquiring general positive knowledge from some replies.
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People who say "look but don't touch" or who don't take themselves to account for their subtle actions are ignoring the state of their heart and soul.
The reason why people can't help but look at women with their parts hanging out is because they have not trained themselves to do so. It's all about discipline. I'm not saying I can walk in a crowd of sparsely dressed women without looking ... I am saying that we should try to avoid looking.
How do we know that you are all shareef parsa here but in real life, you are some bald uncle who winks at young girls.... ;)
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^ Peace Doppleganger
Me shareef? I guess you haven't seen my toupe
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Aap Pakistan kisi chowk may jaaein, since you’re a guy shave look clean like a pappu bacha, lag jai ga pata 
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touche 
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Would someone please explain the butters slang? I've never heard this.
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Would someone please explain the butters slang? I've never heard this.
it means ugly i guess. sweefy please confirm.
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^ i confirm.
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Is it Cockney rhyming slang? Butter is always a good thing in my estimation -- how does it get to mean ugly?
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Is it Cockney rhyming slang? Butter is always a good thing in my estimation -- how does it get to mean ugly?
i don't know i got it from my school going cousins in West London. the actual term is butter face, when you see an ugly girl with a hawt body you say she's hot but her face....so i think people turned but her face into butter face and then shortened it to butters.
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Girls, if your man stares at other women, that means he is still a man. I am sure you will hate it more if its otherwise 
What should u do to return the favor? prove that your are a girl.
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^ 
This reminds me of something my non desi friend told me. She was with her husband on holiday, they were at the swimming pool and he wasn’t wearing his glasses. She caught him checking her out and she was like wtheck? He realised it was his wife and was like ‘Oh, it’s you is it?’ 
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Humans are wired to respond to beautiful people. Men and women will both notice. The word is notice, if you're just staring that's different and I'm sure plenty of people would mind that but if you're gonna tell me that you don't notice a good looking person (man or woman) you're lying because even babies show a preference for looks.
Furthermore, men are even more predisposed towards physical beauty as this shows a healthy woman who will bear healthy children. Again, if you just notice, I'm sure most people would not be offended. If you're staring or checking them out and going "daaammnn" then I'm sure your spouse, the person you're leering at, and people in your general vicinity will take some offense.
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"When You Catch Your Man Checking Out Other Women You Start Checking Out The Man Of Those Women"
:p
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what if a person has a healthy wife and 3 kids, will he still “notice” the healthy women?
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Checking out is just wrong.
However I think there is something quite charming about men who appreciate women in a very respectable and classy way. For example yesterday I was watching Johnny Depp's POTC interview and he says something like 'She is certainly very nice to look at, a beautiful women' about Penelope Cruz, and I found his comments and the way he said it very sensible, classy and ultimate homage (considering they're both happily married). It maybe an ovely used to cliche but I instantly thought 'yup he's the man', which straight on earth would notice beauty of woman like Penelope Cruz? I think men should have the confidence, security and sense of aesthetics to acknowledge a beautiful woman and not be afraid of saying it. A woman should not go all gaga in case her husband calls a woman beautiful or vice versa.
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^i agree with you and what a compliment to penelope cruz by johnny depp, very classy :k:
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^So having said that, can i tell a desi girl if she is pretty in nicer way as long as it's not perverted or creepy way? Because i have said that couple of times to non-desi girls and they have taken it well. Would desi girl appreciate?????